LK30 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) Well my love life is still non existent but I'm off to a meeting tomorrow and the girl who usually writes the minutes of the meeting hopefully will be there. I've seen her in the pub in my local town a few times but never spoken to her before. I'm almost certain she's single and she's attractive, my age etc. I'd like to get to know her but a few problems present themselves: 1) She's quite standoffish/aloof. I never really see her smile and she never comes across as someone approachable. I've been in meetings with her before and I might as well be invisible! 2) She only takes notes so I won't get to interact with her easily at all. 3) It's quite a serious meeting so making social conversation could be awkward and perhaps inappropriate. 4) I'm awful at approaches, fear rejection, can't make small talk and not desirable to women!!! I won't really get much chance to speak to her, but one opportunity might be when she gives me reports to read before the meeting. I'm just not sure if I should, and how to deal with it bearing in mind the above and the fact it'll be in a quiet room where other people might hear. I do know her first name. It sounds like an excuse but I do quite a professional job. It's not like in the supermarket for example where you can flirt and there are socialising opportunities. I have to act with respect and it just feels quite wrong to try anything - not to mention the awkwardness if it goes wrong!!! Any helpful thoughts? Thanks Edited October 2, 2012 by LK30
TaraMaiden Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 leave a note, in an envelope, under her windscreen wiper. Make it non-stalkerish, tell her you like her, you'd like to maybe go out for a coffee, and it would be nice to see her socially. Ask her to put the note in her pocket if she agrees, and tell her if she does, you'll be in touch. if she doesn't, she will never hear from you again, and you respect her decision. This will of course, all hinge on whether you can see her and her car from a point of concealment. if not - I dunno.....
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