bumpped Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 This girl happened to be one of my friends ex which i did know she exist because i just moved back from other states.Some how we ended up hanging out and she told me how bad my friend treated her and out of pity and due to i'm interested in her,i show her a lot of care and attention and even flirted a little cause of her previous relationship.We ended up texting and hang out almost everyday and we're really close.When i don't reply her text she will keep texting and calling me.I don't plan to make a move so soon because she seemed to like not over my friend.One day she ended up holding my hand and i thought it was nothing,the following day when we clubbed,she kissed me twice but went to the toilet to call her ex (only to find out later on in the future which i didn't know it happened during that time) and when she got home,she called me asking why i like her and would i catch her if she falls?.I replied yes and asked would she be together with me and she said she is confused.The next day i went to accompany her for lunch i straight ask her and she said we go on a trial and i was stupid to accept that.When were together she told her friends she see's me everyday till she wants to puke but she is the one making all the plans and she even told me she like challenges.She even tell her friends she can't bare to kiss me behind my back while she is doing it.I soon found out from her friends and i decided to quit the relationship and she came asking me to stay friends and told me take time to get to know each other more and some how i agree to it.Cmon it's already been a month plus we're hanging out together.She treated me so nice still and we're so close and in between 3 weeks i asked did her feelings developed and she replied that she likes me but still confused if there is any feelings but she keeps on showing me that she is very interested and it keeps on going till one day,she finally asked me to stop liking her anymore and her feelings towards me cant grow anymore.She even throw all the blame on me for being emotional and even throw her anger and being rude to me after what i did to help her heal.I am so confused why she acted this way which later on i found out from her friend due to the fact that a guy came back from overseas and she hit it off with him immediately in the club and they end up together.She just walk out of me just like that after were so close.I did confronted her for playing and stringing me along really well and i told her i wasn't angry because she was only 20. Deep down inside my heart is crushed and devastated and so angry bout myself because i'm so dumb to put in all the effort and feelings for this girl because of how well she treated me from the beginning till end and only to find out it was fake. Was she even interested in me in the first place? Any advice or comments on what to do people? Would appreciate it Additional Details When i asked her whats her decision and even towards the end,she screw me saying that she just got out from a **** up relationship as an excuse and when i bump into her and i tried to be a bigger man and smile at her to pretend im cool and she gave me a cocky smirk.The second time i bump into her i just move my eyes away as if im disappointed or disgusted.How should i act anyway? Is there anyway to make her come back?
kae Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 it was your friend`s girl... she might be treating you horribly cuz she sees you as a pussywipe moral sellout who is easy like breathing.. it was your FRIEND`s girl????????!
kae Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 i think she liked her boy a lot and wanted to hurt him and she like you a little and saw an opportunity to use you. So, she used you a bit, and feels guilty and is now, lashing out. whatever.. its seems pretty doomed. taking seconds.. makes you low grade
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