Sox Man Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Been up and down and a nervous wreck over a woman at my workplace that I've been "seeing" for several months. She's recently divorced (3 months), and she's told me she's not ready for anything serious right now, but she flirts with me at work and asks me to do things with her away from work. I've tried playing it cool, but should I just come out and tell her how I feel? I'm afraid this will scare her off, or should I just blow her advances off, and stay at arms length while she figures things out. I've tried to move on, and thankfully we don't see each other at work every day. When I don't see her for a few days, I'm better, but when I see her again, my feelings come right back. Wish I could just get some closure here.
TaraMaiden Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 How long was her marriage? Generally, the longer the marriage, the longer she'll just be in "Hey let's just play!" mood.....
Author Sox Man Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 I went NC for a full week,but remember, we work together. Then she wants to know why she hasn't heard from me. What is my response when she asks again and begins being flirty?
InJest Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Ask her out, **** her, and don't get attached. She wants you and will probably give it up pretty easily, but don't expect a relationship or love from her.
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