adam4little Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Hi all So I was friends with this girl for about a year and then she went overseas and realized while there she was in love with me. When she returned I was hesitant but she pushed and pushed and finally we started dating. we moved fast and we started looking for places to live together. I eventually decided to move in with her and her roomie and as I was moving in I was offered a job two hours away. To make it work, I said I would live a week where my job was and weekends back home. During this time she starts talking to a guy from work very flirtatiously. She admits to me that he excites her and he shares her interest in activism work. I return for the second week of work and she calls me to tell me it is over and I need to move out. I initially protest, but then say ok and tell her Ill get my stuff soon. We go NC for a week and a half and this past weekend I return to get my stuff. We decided to meet and have a 'closure' convo. She tells me she is not in love with me anymore after I ask her. She cries and says it has nothing to do with the other guy, that she just realized she is done. I go to move my stuff out the following day while she is at work and I see her computer is up. Here is where I go wrong and I regret doing this. I look at her Facebook stuff and sure enough she and this guy are seeing each other and have been for a couple of weeks. I leave a note telling her I saw the convo and I support her decision and I hope they find happiness. She texts me later "you are making assumptions" I don't respond. I just need some help/someone to chat with/a different perspective/a game plan/anything Thanks 1
witmadskilllz Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Good thing she got rid of you because it'll hurt you more in the long run if she dragged this out. Don't worry, this is in your favour of course but she's a complete hoe. This is completely wrong of her and the way she worded it.. obviously to cover things up. She has lied behind your back and even in front of you. She will be dating with the other guy from now on and you just have to accept the fact(which you did) and keep NC. 1
mvc Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 think you have done the right thing. sure you feel bad about snooping but now you know the true story. shes guilty cause she ****ed up. balls in your court
LoveHurts88 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 I know how u feel bro. 100%.. She broke up with me 2 months ago, I asked her if she was seeing someone else. She said no. BUNCH OF F'ING LIES. These girls will not last in a relationship... 1-2 years max.. They need to get their ****tt together. What they want is the Honey Moon Phase which doesn't last forever.. I love my ex, still do not going to lie. But **** happens time to move on. Just today on her whatsapp status is a flower, probably what the d-bag gave her. Im usually not a softie I seem like a mean guy and what not but this **** hurts more than anything. Take it easy go out have fun with your friends. I have more than 30k invested in her in 2 years.. Take it as a loss. THEIR LOSS.
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