syw0806 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I met this guy from dating site. Im in early 20s hes in early 30s.. pretty big gap haba its only been third date so far. hes a lawyer and has this hectic schedule... which i understand i used to send him quiet texts on the first week but i dont contact him during the day anymore because figured I don't want to bother him while hes working.. id call him or text him during evening.. he always replies or calls back .. we are not even texting back and forth,, and were talking on the phone for only 15 min.. the longest. so im not really being clingy or bothering him at all(i believe haha) but the problem is, he never initiates any contact first. i think if hes interested enough hed text me or call me and check how my day was... he tries to see me every week(once a week is even enough since hes busy lives in NYC and i live in jersey) and if we cant he tries to figure alternative plans. but how he doesnt initiate any first, makes me thinking am i just being booty c? we never had sex, wed have intimate time but i dont really allow him to touch me yet.. haha but still... he told me he likes kids, pretty much is ready for settling down, alternatively looking for someone,, so I thought he wouldn't play around messing around with girls, but who knows,, maybe im option B he asked me if we can meet up on sunday last week, and I said I'm not sure,but I'll try(because I had family thing). Sunday morning I texted him and he texted me back but I couldn't reply because I was busy... but he never called me or texted me after that at all.. I thought he'd text me and bring up about the meeting.. so when I called him yesterday saying I thought I was seeing you on sunday.. he was like 'I thought you supposed to let me know. i worked anyway though.'(he works on sundays) Now im typing this up I feel it was me..lol but he could have texted me...asking me if were meeting if hes interested in seeing me enough..? so when I asked him when we can meet up, he's like ummm when r u free? but then he didn't really gave me exact day to meet up... its like, last week when I said 'we can meet up next week' he didn't want to wait till the next week.. but from the last call.. he didn't really give me the exact day so..maybe he lost interested? anyways it's been always me whos initiating meeting and all contact.. he's not a shy guy but sometimes i think is he afraid of rejected or what..? because from the first date, hes always been kinda passive making moves.. but then again, hes def not a shy guy... so what is he up to? just not that interested? thanks for reading
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