DavidLondon Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 If you look at my previous post you will see the whole messed up story! We have not had any contact for a week and i was doing fine until the last few days. I would really like things to work with her. I have been going to places we used to visit, not because it makes me sad but because i need to create new memories of these places without her being there. I wrote i miss you in the sand yesterday as we always used to write things to each other when we were there. I am thinking about sending it to her. Not that i want to jump back into something quickly with her but i want her to know how i feel. What do you think?
winstonsdreams Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Dude i read your story it's very sad, but it appears she just isn't feeling it man. My advice would be to go complete NC, it's probably your only chance. You have to see what it is like without you in her life, in the mean time you will eventually start to feel better, which is the purpose of No Contact. And please don't visit place you guys you used to go or write ***t in the sand it is only going to tear you up. Go to NEW places, see your friends, go to the gym have fun. If you MUST send her a text or something telling her you are moving on and you won't be contacting her again, wish her well of course, but tell her you need to move on and start to get on with your life without her. That's my advice and that is what i did with my ex, unfortunately i never heard from her again, but i did what i thought was best at the time, and then did what a lot of the NC guides recommend, and i am feeling better, and we broke up 5 months ago! Hope it helps.
Author DavidLondon Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 I was going to leave her for at least a month, as i never got an answer or real reason. The only reason i am thinking this now is because her best friend was telling me that she was trying to talk her out of it. She likes us being together everyone who knows about the break up is gutted. Her friend told me the reason is because she cant to the distance right now but she then said she will be back with a big smily face (as in when her course is finished). I stupidly acted like i didn't care about the break up acting as if my ex had burnt all her bridges. Knowing full well knowing it would get back to her. I have not yet at any point acted bothered or hurt to her about it. I thought it might show her i do care and remind her of good times and that i am more bothered than i make out. I just don't want her to think i don't give a crap about what we had. When in reality she quite possibly the best thing that ever happened to me.
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