Need relationship

[Neptune34]

Hi, I will try to cut to the chase here but fill in the details...so I work with a girl who is 14 years younger than me...We started to hang out even though I had a gf at the time (I wanted to leave the relationship and find someone new but was afraid to leave it until then...) I didn't kiss her only hugged her like a friend and go to know her. We hit it off talked through a movie went to lunch etc.. at work a "friend" of hers somehow found out about my "secret gf" (I still don't know how) and the woman I really cared for backed off of me. I broke it off with my ex gf and told her and then things were off an on. Her "friend" who didn't want us to be together is out of the picture now and we have been working together lately. She hurt herself accidentally and I have been helping out. We have gone to lunch a few times and enjoy talking at work and outside of work. But she still is too busy to do anything lately after work like a real date. But she always smiles at me and makes eye contact and taps me on the shoulder to ask questions and a little playful. Then I hear she has been out possibly on a date or so with a guy and that they were too aggressive or something. So yes I am older but I really care about this woman and I believe at least she likes me very much as a friend but after all of this..how do I slowly progress so she will want to be my gf...? I know I sorta blew it in the beginning but I see so much potential...today she laughed and said that I was "so funny" and we touch hands sometimes briefly while she is asking me a question and I touch the item she is talking about. And too add it sometimes almost seem like were a married couple even though we have never done anything more than friends...thanks

[madjac74]

Hi, I will try to cut to the chase here but fill in the details...so I work with a girl who is 14 years younger than me...We started to hang out even though I had a gf at the time (I wanted to leave the relationship and find someone new but was afraid to leave it until then...) I didn't kiss her only hugged her like a friend and go to know her. We hit it off talked through a movie went to lunch etc.. at work a "friend" of hers somehow found out about my "secret gf" (I still don't know how) and the woman I really cared for backed off of me. I broke it off with my ex gf and told her and then things were off an on. Her "friend" who didn't want us to be together is out of the picture now and we have been working together lately. She hurt herself accidentally and I have been helping out. We have gone to lunch a few times and enjoy talking at work and outside of work. But she still is too busy to do anything lately after work like a real date. But she always smiles at me and makes eye contact and taps me on the shoulder to ask questions and a little playful. Then I hear she has been out possibly on a date or so with a guy and that they were too aggressive or something. So yes I am older but I really care about this woman and I believe at least she likes me very much as a friend but after all of this..how do I slowly progress so she will want to be my gf...? I know I sorta blew it in the beginning but I see so much potential...today she laughed and said that I was "so funny" and we touch hands sometimes briefly while she is asking me a question and I touch the item she is talking about. And too add it sometimes almost seem like were a married couple even though we have never done anything more than friends...thanks

 

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