kyle77 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I know the obvious answer to this solution is....don't go looking for her or dont see her. But we go to the same university....I have no choice. Today was the first time I saw her in weeks and I cant get her off my mind. All i want to do is go and see what she is up to. How she is doing etc. What do you guys think I should do about this....I obviously am going to see her from time to time...my university is big so this is the first time I saw her since the semester started.....any ideas?
Exit Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Change schools or walk with your eyes closed? Lol of course there is no real way to stop this from happening if it's a physical impossibility. You can't stop it from happening but you can control your reaction to it. If she ended the relationship then just quickly remind yourself that you shouldn't feel so eager to catch up with someone who decided that you aren't good enough for them, look the other way, and go about your business. Or really, in the realm of possibilities, if it makes you completely miserable, you could change schools.
Sugarkane Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 If you can deal with it, fake it til you make it? Pretend you're ok and act normal. When I got dumped in high school and had classes with my ex (wasn't allowed to change) that's what I did.
Coffee20 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I have to meet my ex too, we have same class at the university and I never behave normal. I try as hard as possible but I am near crying or I feel very angry all the time. On the other hand I always remember his fatal sentence: "I had to lower myself down because pretty girls didn't want to date me, so I had to date you." And I always keep telling this sentence to myself so it keeps me from contacting. Why should I talk to a person who has to lower himself to my level?? Why should I stay friends with someone who I had never been good enough to spend some time with me? Why should I talk to a person who caught each of my word and turned it against me? And why should I be a friend to a person who DOESN'T NEED ME?? I try to repeat these sentences over and over, otherwise I would forgive him. You are not alone and I feel sorry for you .
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