t1m Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Just what your views are in general between the two. Im a guy in senior year of high school and just curious about the general trends between the two. Which do you prefer? Why do you prefer it? What advantages in college is there over high school? What advantages in high school is there over college? I already dated someone for about 7 months from Sophomore year to Junior Year and learned from my mistakes (Had a "Clingy" personality and all that) Any tips?
O'farrell Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Just what your views are in general between the two. Im a guy in senior year of high school and just curious about the general trends between the two. Which do you prefer? Why do you prefer it? What advantages in college is there over high school? What advantages in high school is there over college? I already dated someone for about 7 months from Sophomore year to Junior Year and learned from my mistakes (Had a "Clingy" personality and all that) Any tips? From what I know college is better because high school women are young and naive. When I was in high school people had fun by smoking pot and getting drunk together. When I was in college we went to the city and went bar hopping and club hopping. Plus, girls in college are more secure in my experience than high school girls and more "brave" when it comes to the opposite sex. They are also generally smarter, making them better relationship material. And they are better in the sack;)
MrCastle Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I've found college to be pretty hard dating wise. It's not like the movies where it's single hot chicks running around scantily clad having no strings attached sex with nerds. Most of the ones I go after have boyfriends. A lot of them are also still pretty immature for their age and can't stay single for more than 3 weeks. So you have to find those little windows where she's single. It also depends on classes. My classes are small, and sometimes they can be real sausage fests. Then, from the few girls you have in class, how many are 1.) attractive, 2.) single, 3.) attracted to you? Of course, the more friends you make, the bigger your circle is, the more success you're likely to have. But don't go around thinking college is something out of an american pie movie.
MrCastle Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Well, to be fair, usually Northeast colleges are known for academic prestige, not social life. Yeah. We don't really have party schools.
CaptJay Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Yeah. We don't really have party schools. Oh, but we did...!
Revolver Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I did ok in HS, but college is where I really hit my stride when it comes to dating and being more successful with women(specifically Sophmore year). To me if your a guy and can't/couldnt get laid in college(especially if you went away), you should probably give up at this point
Necris Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I did ok in HS, but college is where I really hit my stride when it comes to dating and being more successful with women(specifically Sophmore year). To me if your a guy and can't/couldnt get laid in college(especially if you went away), you should probably give up at this point Weren't you the guy who just said that there is nobody that can't attract anybody but now you are saying you should probably give up?
Author t1m Posted October 4, 2012 Author Posted October 4, 2012 So how should one approach it? Because the high school I come from is a very demanding one, yet people still managed to find time for relationships (including me earlier). My last GF was ticked off cause I was the "good guy" and turned her off basically. Since then I havent looked for a relationship since Ive been focusing on myself (Friends, Schoolwork, the gym, drums, learning Mandarin, etc...) So how should one go about it if you meet a girl in College that you can genuinally go out with?
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