Briggs21 Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) After 3 months of NC i received the first round of "breadcrumbs." It was late last night, at about 1145 my phone started ringing and it was her. I ignored the call and went back to sleep, 15 min later my phone beeps, and i have a new text from her. She was informing me about her crazy uncle got arrested yet again (it was something we joked about when dating, the guy is nuts and is always getting into trouble.) again i ignored it (well read it and didnt respond) and went back to sleep. the reason i ask is "is this odd" is because whenever i see any thread on breadcrumbs it is always either text, or email. i guess because it the least personal way to contact someone, but she opted for the phone call, and the after felt the need to make sure i got a message that is pretty irrelevant to anything relationship wise via text. If it helps she left me for someone else a little over 3 months ago, and a week after the breakup i went NC, no nothing calls/texts.emails nada. this is the first contact on either side. Edited October 2, 2012 by Briggs21
Exit Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Well it seems you me you are fishing for someone to say that odd = she is thinking about wanting you back, but those are two different things. Is it odd for someone you've been NC with to contact you about an irrelevant subject? Sure. Is it odd that she chose to call right away rather than trying a text or email? Kind of. Should this even begin to stir up the slightest hope in your mind that she might be missing you? Not really. Not only did she leave you, but you made sure to very specifically say she left for someone else. So in cases like that, I don't take the breakup lightly, I don't think you should play it cool and reply casually and have a laugh about it. I would say forget it ever happened and let her joke about it with the person she left you for.
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