Sun Devil Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 For anyone who does not know, I have been single for my entire life. I never been kissed let alone had any intimacy. I am 23 years old and I am the only guy in my social circle who never had a girlfriend. I am near my breaking point. I see guys who are high school dropouts and drug users get girls, but for some reason I can't. I try to enjoy life by doing my hobbies, but it does not make up for being single. I cant stand it much longer. I will not be the guy with no relationship at 30. I don't care what I have to do and what laws I have to break, I will do whatever it takes to get a girl.. Since every girl I met has a boyfriend, I will have to remove him.
ThaWholigan Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Don't be melodramatic, you sound like a bad cartoon villain. 1
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 You really should consider moving to Japan. Take a few Japanese classes, and if you can do a study abroad program. It's either that, or stay alone.
SmileFace Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 You really should consider moving to Japan. Take a few Japanese classes, and if you can do a study abroad program. It's either that, or stay alone. Why would he move to Japan?
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) Why would he move to Japan? Because he's half Japanese and only 5 feet tall. He'd have much better luck in Japan then in the US, and so far he's had no luck here at all. Heck I'm half white and half Cuban and I'd consider moving to Cuba if the country wasn't so poor off. Edited October 1, 2012 by somedude81
todreaminblue Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 For anyone who does not know, I have been single for my entire life. I never been kissed let alone had any intimacy. I am 23 years old and I am the only guy in my social circle who never had a girlfriend. I am near my breaking point. I see guys who are high school dropouts and drug users get girls, but for some reason I can't. I try to enjoy life by doing my hobbies, but it does not make up for being single. I cant stand it much longer. I will not be the guy with no relationship at 30. I don't care what I have to do and what laws I have to break, I will do whatever it takes to get a girl.. Since every girl I met has a boyfriend, I will have to remove him. on this site a lot (and i am not making a judgement on anyone) but more about the talk of winning hearts.......you cant win hearts they can only be given if someone you are interested in doesn't give you their heart and you so called win it....it isnt yours to have....... you can do nice things for someone, show them what you have to offer them in the way of love and affection, you really cant win their heart.God decides that in the end he owns our hearts, for god is love we were made in his image..........our hearts were here before we were born........ it sounds spiritual because it is spiritual and hearts are not games to play giving your heart to someone means that you love them.......you might not have had a girlfriend yet or had intimacy...if you are talking about sex then it's the wrong direction......dont listen to people who say you are pathetic....they arent being honest.......everyone in this world unless we talk sociopath here wants love and searches sometimes their whole life for it......you are no different to me even though i have had boyfriends....and yeah drug addicts at that....didnt think honestly that would have happened to me.........because i am not that type of girl...but it did.....dont think it was love that i found it would have been better if it were just about me that i didnt have those relationships.... the positive accord that i have is....five children...my tribe sent from above.and i didnt get married......ever....so i gave up....i hav ehope back now after six plus years you dont need to wipe someone out to find love dont think like that its not good for you it takes away the love you have to give someone and what you could offer and replaces it with bitterness and jealousy...... when someone does give you their heart all the time you waited will be worth it......have hope...gods plan was for us to be loved as he loves us for us to have that physical expression and emotional expression and that comfort.......he comforts us while we wait......if you let him.....just believe...have hope......pray and see th ebeauty all around you...now that's love......i am waiting for aheart a sepcial heart not just nay heart i could get that ....i want one....and i want to give my heart to one....when you find the person you want and need to love...be patient...if it is meant to happen it will....and i wish and hope and yeah ill pray that you find all you seek.....chin up buddy...hugs...deb
Author Sun Devil Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 somedude81, going to Japan would not be a good idea. Alot of Japanese women are coming here to the U.S and alot of them wont marry Japanese men since the men do not always treat them well. Todreaminblue, I used to believe in a god and thought that he would get me a girl, but after seeing everyone of my friends get girls except for me and to be surrounded by many girls but have all of them reject me is the worst. If there is a god, then that god is very cruel and sadistic. I would not worship anyone like him.
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