Canadian731 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) I know that right now you are really feeling down on yourself, Thinking that if you had done something differently you and your ex would still be together and happy, but you have to realize that people change and with that what they want also changes. It wasn't your fault and it wasn't their fault. you probably came on here to either A. You are hoping to find someone saying that there is hope for you and your ex, and if you keep calling him/her and leaving countless messages on their machine they will eventually call you back and say they regret ever breaking up with you or B. You are trying to find comfort in knowing that your relationship is in fact over. But what you have to realize is that either way, Nothing anyone on here says will change what your heart wants. If you truly feel that there is a chance with your ex in your heart and you love them, Go after them, You need to express your feelings which I know is hard for most but that's the only way they will ever know how strongly you feel for them. The only thing you have to lose is being rejected again, but its never as bad as the first time. If you are one of the people who just want some support in knowing its over for good, I know it hurts and that pain isn't going to go away for awhile, but I can tell you right now that you will be ok, you will love again and you will live through this heartbreak. Basically what I wanted all of you to know is that you aren't alone, and you won't be single forever, I truly believe that there is someone out there for all of us and one day, which may not be now, you will find them. But love isn't something you should have to seek, it will come to you when you least expect it. So give yourself time to heal from this heartbreak because people grow the most during times of change, Don't go out and sleep with their best friend just because they cheated on you, they will have that on their concience for the rest of their lives and you will eventually come to terms with it and be ok. Edited October 1, 2012 by Canadian731 7
january2011 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Your post is one of the reasons why many people find solace in this forum.
ponette Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 i'm struggling today--i've struggled everyday for weeks. thanks for posting. 1
Author Canadian731 Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 Well ponette, I can say I have been where you are and I am sure I will be there again. My best advice would be to look at all the positive things and people you have in your life, I know that hurt trust me, it won't go away completely until you come to a point of realization that this needed to happen in your life for you to grow into the person you were meant to be. I wish you all the best and hope you feel better
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