ElectricBlue Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Hello everyone! I am new on here so bare with me haha! Well, basically my ex and I split up nearly a year ago. It took me a long time to move on and I had a lot going on in my life, yet throughout the breakup we have both initiated contact. Sometimes we had to and he has sought my help&advice, other times I believe out of loneliness on both our parts, however these normally ended up in huge arguments about petty things... The thing is, my ex likes to play mind games. I didn't realise this until I had cooled down from the breakup, but he really does. I stopped contacting him altogether about 3 months ago as I had basically had enough of arguing with him. He then would initiate contact with me maybe every 2 weeks or so. Just to say hi or pick a fight, then disappear again off the face off the earth... The thing is, it's his most recent 'game' which is confusing. He contacted me about a week after he rang me up trying to pick arguments (unknown number and I answered).. He was nice, caring and considerate and apologetic, even a bit flirty. He kept on contacting me for a couple of weeks, he then asked me to meet up on a couple of occasions. I finally said okay, let me know and I will work something out and he then said I was forcing him...okay I thought, bit weird so didn't contact him, let him have space I thought. Then he contacted me again, and we were talking and I mentioned how it was nice we had got to a stage where we could speak again, it must mean their was a connection there (but necessarily romantic).. he then told me I had basically overstepped the mark, he didn't want me to start 'liking' him again as it would all end really badly etc and for that reason, thats why he doesn't want to go places with me (even though he asks me :S).... We are now not talking again after he started acting like an idiot. I ignored his last text altogether, that was a week ago. Am I being unreasonable here to feel annoyed? Why, what fuels him? I really don't understand him at all..
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