without Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 This semester I have classes in university with some very cute guys (UNtil now most of my classmates were 90% girls.) There are more girls in our university than boys. And its my last year in university. Some of them are real nerds but there are some non-nerds too. They look at me a lot but never talk to me. I don't know what to tell them either. Any ideas?
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Step one: Sit next to him Step two: Ask him something about the class 4
River Rain Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Start by smiling. Say hello. Talk about the class. Talk about the weather. Personally I believe life is too short not to take a risk. If you want to go out with a guy, don't wait for him to ask you. The worst that could happen is that he rejects you, and I know that's bad, but what if you do nothing and he's the love of your life? Take a risk! 2
Author without Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 Step one: Sit next to him Step two: Ask him something about the class Bravo. And to think that I've never done it before. Wouldn't that be weird that I haven't sit next to my girl classmates that I already know? I'm so damn shy.
CaptJay Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Bravo. And to think that I've never done it before. Wouldn't that be weird that I haven't sit next to my girl classmates that I already know? I'm so damn shy. They already know you, and I'm sure that they'd support your efforts if you explain what you are trying to do. For all you know, one of your friends/acquaintances may have an "in" with this guy for a possible introduction! cj 1
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Bravo. And to think that I've never done it before. Wouldn't that be weird that I haven't sit next to my girl classmates that I already know? I'm so damn shy. Weird for who, you or the guy? If you can't sit apart from your friends then there isn't anything I can do. As for the guy, he's really not going to care or even notice that you aren't with you friends. The ultimate goal is to be in close proximity to the guy and show him that you are open to talking. Once the ice has been broken, it will be easier for him to talk to you. Try to be fun and interested in what he has to say/the conversation. Try that a couple of times.
Author without Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 Weird for who, you or the guy? If you can't sit apart from your friends then there isn't anything I can do. As for the guy, he's really not going to care or even notice that you aren't with you friends. The ultimate goal is to be in close proximity to the guy and show him that you are open to talking. Once the ice has been broken, it will be easier for him to talk to you. Try to be fun and interested in what he has to say/the conversation. Try that a couple of times. For the guy of course. Okay Thanks.
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