blue_jay_bird Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 I can't concentrate, i can't think, i can't do this. All i have seen is a pic of my ex with another girl, on which looks like a date. All these thoughts go racing through my head. She must me amazing, I bet she's everything he wanted. How long has he known her, what if she's why he left. She, she... I can't function. Link to post Share on other sites
River Rain Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 I'm sorry you feel so bad. How long since you broke up? Link to post Share on other sites
Mint Sauce Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 she's just a shiny new toy. She's still far from his heart. And he's stupid for getting out there so quickly. Even though it hurts like hell for you now, you are making steps to real long-lasting happiness. He's on the wrong path. hug Link to post Share on other sites
Author blue_jay_bird Posted October 1, 2012 Author Share Posted October 1, 2012 she's just a shiny new toy. She's still far from his heart. And he's stupid for getting out there so quickly. Even though it hurts like hell for you now, you are making steps to real long-lasting happiness. He's on the wrong path. hug It's been 4 months since BU. He's stupid for getting out there so quickly, as im I. I'v been on a couple dates. I told him to date, and that i was dating. I am a mess. I can't study, i can't eat, i don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 It's been 4 months since BU. He's stupid for getting out there so quickly, as im I. I'v been on a couple dates. I told him to date, and that i was dating. I am a mess. I can't study, i can't eat, i don't know what to do. step 1: quit looking at pictures of him with girls. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Canadian731 Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 I wouldn't worry about it, Most people look for a rebound after a big breakup to try and distract themselves. But then again some people get over things quicker then others, I know that when my ex and I broke up she had already dealt with it while I was so upset and hadn't even thought of this happeneing. You will get over it in time, I recommend you block him and his relatives on facebook (Not because you dislike them because then there is no chance of seeing anything about your ex) and just try to get on with life, you will live and you will love again, Keep your chin up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
witmadskilllz Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) I've been there before darling, my ex dumped me and two weeks after was already in another relationship and they're still going at it till this very day. All I could do was wish her the best of luck and remained NC since then. It's hard, the days are going to be much longer than usual but the more you think of it and him, the more misery and heartache you'll bring to yourself. I've gained more weight, 50 pounds heavier than before, lazier, less productive and I don't plan on rushing things with another, life has too many things to enjoy atm. Of course I do get distracted here and there while knowing my ex is much happier now and her new man is everything that she always wanted(handsome, 6 pac, well fit, white) and very compatible, enjoys the same hobbies and all. I'm just glad that I'm still here alive and breathing, waiting for the day to come when I'll be on my knees and proposing to the one I love dearly Edited October 1, 2012 by witmadskilllz Link to post Share on other sites
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