john7474 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) I am about 6 months out of a 2 year relationsip and there has been much more drama since the relationship ended then when we were together. My Ex and I work together but in different departments. I see her several times a week which I have tried to deal with the best I can. She made it clear to most of our coworkers that we are no longer together which is fine and here is where more drama begins. Unfortunately, the perception of my ex is very poor at my work place and have had several people ask why I ever even dated her. Recently, some of her coworkers have been flirting with me more and my ex to the the least was "annoyed" about it. Last time we spoke, she said I should have enough respect for our relationship not to flirt back. What relationship, right? I am just friendly but have no intention of dating anyone at my work place again. Some do it because she talked s*** about them and they are just looking to get back at her through me. I have defended her on several occassions when the talk s*** about her because i find it disrepectful. I am not going to speak up when people say negative things about her anymore and the ironic thing is my ex thinks i was entertaining these people. As a recourse when i see her now, she is flirting with anyone i assume to try and get back at me or make me jealous. She likes being the center of attention but was never the flirty type. My question is this: Why would she care if others flirt with me? She made it clear she has no feelings for me so why would it matter to her? Btw, she ended the relationship and i tried for awhile to work things out but she was nonresponsive and has been cold and callous on and off since then. So why would she be upset? Edited October 1, 2012 by john7474 spelling
WhatYouWantToHear Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I'll do you one better: Why do you care about what she cares about? 2
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