SteveC80 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 When i first started dating nearly 15 years ago sleeping on the first date was pretty taboo for a women and you rarely saw it nowadays its 50/50 wheter a women will sleep with you on a first date Do you think theyres any reason for this? Is it maybe because female sexuality is promoted more these days through tv shows and people becoming famous for it like a Paris Hilton or Kim K? where in the past women were shamed for their sexuality now is a little more celebrated and tolerated To each his own im not telling anyone how to live there life i just find it interestign how in short time thigns have really changed with femnlae sexuality
Balzac Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Honestly I hold the belief that it's delayed marriage, demand for education, career and two incomes necessary. The goal used to be marriage. Contraceptives were less reliable, less easily accessed. Our cultural demands on women have changed dramatically. Women have always been desirous of sexual pleasure.
ThaWholigan Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 There is an overly sexual element to modern culture these days. It has it's pros and cons. Men are just as encouraged to be sexual, only in different avenues. Women are encouraged also, but at times it's almost against a person's psychological nature - as in sometimes a person who would normally prefer a monogamous arrangement (man or woman), ends up being encouraged and thrust into the paradigm of endless f*cking . It's difficult to resist these days, especially in a culture that promotes instant gratification. As a result, there's lots of quantity and less quality, and there is a certain element of dissatisfaction slowly rearing it's head amongst some people of both genders. For a lot of people, it's good for them as they are highly sexual naturally - but only if they are growing from it. For others, they may be the opposite, and as such, they could also grow by learning from their sexuality. Women in particular are more encouraged to explore their sexuality, but they have to do, in my opinion, in an environment that suits and is comfortable for them to do so. It may not be a good thing for a lot of women to be f*cking around, whereas others will find more room for growth in doing just that. Other women, may need to be in a comfortable relationship with a man they trust and are attracted to for growth. 1
jcrew11 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Women are encouraged to be more like men: independent, smarter, richer, and career-oriented. With the prevalence of sexual exposure from internet sites, younger women and older divorcees are more open-minded about experimenting. With birth control and increased alcohol consumption, women can also have one night stands without getting emotionally attached or having to rely on a man to become a long-term boyfriend, since she has her own money and can pay for her own food and housing.
Balzac Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Added reality of no fault divorce and low or no stigma for solo parenting of children.
colombiana28 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Maybe. But it's not because they want it or even like it. Self esteem issues and a self destructive behavior is the reason women have sex on the first date. ...said every undesirable male who has never had sex on the first date. Bitch, please. I've had sex on the first "date" twice...turned into a 4 year relationship and a 2 year relationship. Now, taking a break from relationships, it's easier and funner than ever to have casual sex without even having to go on a date! I'd say having such a strong madonna-whore complex is more indicative of self esteem issues than a woman going after what she wants. 2
PJKino Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 ...said every undesirable male who has never had sex on the first date. Bitch, please. I've had sex on the first "date" twice...turned into a 4 year relationship and a 2 year relationship. Now, taking a break from relationships, it's easier and funner than ever to have casual sex without even having to go on a date! I'd say having such a strong madonna-whore complex is more indicative of self esteem issues than a woman going after what she wants. I agree i think female sexuality is something people dont talk about or want to think about but its pretty powerful you just dont see it alot for two reasons: 1-its tabooo as the op said but not as much is it used to be 2-not many guys Women deem good looking enough can brign it out and show how horny they truly are I see firsthand from my good lookign friend the depths women will go to gett he attention of a man they think is hot and its quite possibly evne more powerful and creepy then when a man sees a really hot chick
Balzac Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 HaHa yeah. Guys aren't lifting their shirts or throwing the underwear. Women do some amazingly funny behaviors.
PJKino Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 HaHa yeah. Guys aren't lifting their shirts or throwing the underwear. Women do some amazingly funny behaviors. Ive seen it hanging around a really good looking guy..i know men get a bad rep for letting their hormones get the best of them but i think women are even worse and lose their hormones even more and show creepy behavior when they see a guy they think is hot
Revolver Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 (edited) And without dates at all. If your a guy and can't do well in this over sexualized environment today I really don't know what to tell you. I honestly don't know how a guy could be against this unless he's not benefiting from it Edited October 4, 2012 by Revolver
ThaWholigan Posted October 4, 2012 Posted October 4, 2012 And without dates at all. If your a guy and can't do well in this over sexualized environment today I really don't know what to tell you. I honestly don't know how a guy could be against this unless he's not benefiting from it I actually kind of agree with this. I got laid with a girl I'm not even dating. In fact, I nearly sexed her on first meet. 2
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