Sugarkane Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I've been seeing a new guy and his family seem to be high achievers. He went to a private school. I envy him as I haven't had the same opportunities as he has.
Emilia Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I date posh boys from time to time, I quite like being with people who are well to do. 'No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent' 3
yongyong Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 As a Woman, you can date 'up' as long as you are attractive enough and a smart girl. I say don't worry about it since you are a woman as I keep saying this 'men and women are not equal'
darkmoon Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) sugarkane - maybe upgrade, go to classes, i think you must be very young and feminine with your screen name, but presumably you two have intellectual conversations, if they go well, you're fine, if not try classes, or just watch the news more, it's all serious intellectual Edited October 1, 2012 by darkmoon
madjac74 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 So how do you feel about him rather than his background? Just because someone comes from money doesn't mean they are someone to be envied. In fact it is usually the opposite
madjac74 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 sugarkane - maybe upgrade, go to classes, i think you must be very young and feminine with your screen name, but presumably you two have intellectual conversations, if they go well, you're fine, if not try classes, or just watch the news more, it's all serious intellectual So she should change herself to suit him?
darkmoon Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 (edited) So she should change herself to suit him? I feel like I come from the wrong side of the tracks I've been seeing a new guy and his family seem to be high achievers. He went to a private school. I envy him as I haven't had the same opportunities as he has. this was a her problem, re-posted above, I have made a suggestion what is your suggestion madjac? seriously, suggest something Edited October 1, 2012 by darkmoon
FitChick Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I date posh boys from time to time, I quite like being with people who are well to do. 'No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent' I love a posh accent. I am getting to know someone with that accent who is successful and talented and very social. He has met the Queen and Prince Charles. It's a very different world and since I like to be mentally stimulated, I em enjoying it for the moment. But don't forget to look behind the curtain and see the real man.
yongyong Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Women will do anything to sleep with famous and rich guys. Do I think it's bad?, No. Will you admit you slept with him because of his background? No. I love a posh accent. I am getting to know someone with that accent who is successful and talented and very social. He has met the Queen and Prince Charles. It's a very different world and since I like to be mentally stimulated, I em enjoying it for the moment. But don't forget to look behind the curtain and see the real man.
january2011 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I agree with darkmoon. Dating someone who is more accomplished in some areas, can spur you to take action and improve yourself. You don't have to compete but, like Fitchick, you can use this as an opportunity to learn and experience things that you wouldn't normally.
DC4 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I love a posh accent. My ex is Australian (Melbourne accent, not Crocodile Hunter accent). It doesn't take long before it becomes generic boyfriend/husband accent.
Author Sugarkane Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 We are totally on the same intellectual leve and it is good to have serious conversations with. I feel better about him than anyone else. He is actually less arrogant than my ex. Even though my ex had the same upbringing as me and isn't rich. My ex is super arrogant. This guy is way more encouraging and supportive than my ex ever was.
Author Sugarkane Posted October 2, 2012 Author Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) He doesn't have a posh accent either. I feel great about him, no matter what his background is. Edited October 2, 2012 by Sugarkane
Woggle Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Embrace it. No matter how much money I make I will always be a working class guy and I am proud of that. I don't like posh yuppie kind of people very much anyway. The working class are the ones who keep things running anyway.
todreaminblue Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 I've been seeing a new guy and his family seem to be high achievers. He went to a private school. I envy him as I haven't had the same opportunities as he has. You bring something new to the table if he he is with you there has to be a reason why he is with you.Dont envy him.Make your own way in the world a lot of people do... having high achievers in family doesnt say automatic happiness by the way.....maybe that is what it is for him being with you....happiness........ certificates and achievements dont guarantee a happy relationship....intelligence can come in many forms...dont spoil what you have in you, with envy....its of no use to make a happy relationship..........best wishes ....deb
darkmoon Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 (edited) You bring something new to the table if he he is with you there has to be a reason why he is with you.Dont envy him.Make your own way in the world a lot of people do... having high achievers in family doesnt say automatic happiness by the way.....maybe that is what it is for him being with you....happiness........ certificates and achievements dont guarantee a happy relationship....intelligence can come in many forms...dont spoil what you have in you, with envy....its of no use to make a happy relationship..........best wishes ....deb he ought to be bringing you into his world, but he has not made you feel comfortable there so far, not part of his life sugarkane, i'll come right out and say it, with a screen name like yours i'm assuming you're young and cute, so please don't waste the best years of your life, feeling like this and dating a man who seems too insensitive to see what's under his nose you're always so sweet on loveshack, it's a form of innocence seeing/being sugar, i worry about you, so here i am Edited October 2, 2012 by darkmoon
lino Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 He has met the Queen and Prince Charles. It's a very different world and since I like to be mentally stimulated Yep, meeting the British royal family definitely = ultimate mental stimulation. My ex is Australian (Melbourne accent, not Crocodile Hunter accent). It doesn't take long before it becomes generic boyfriend/husband accent. What the hell is a Melbourne accent? Boyfriends/husbands have accents too? You're right though, everyone here who isn't posh and from Melbourne speaks like Irwin did
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