the_opposite_sex Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 about 6 mts ago, i found that my b/f had signed up to like 3 singles sites online. I found 'em and it said he was a "male wanting to talk to a female." i asked him bout it and he said he didnt wanna talk to a guy b/c they might be gay lol understandable. And i read his profiles on the site and he mentioned that he was taken and everything. So why go to a site where you can only talk to women? Keep in mind that he's a very sociable, outgoing, friendly guy. heh That's just his personality.
Artifact Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Hey the_opposite_sex, I guess I can see why he would want to talk to "anonymous others" (such as we do on this site) whether it be women OR men. But why would he go to a singles site to do it? To me that's a little strange... I may be misunderstanding what kind of site it is though. I mean, how many singles sites have a blank in the profile for "taken"? He was honest with you when you asked him 6 months before, right? If it is still bothering you, my only advice is to talk to HIM about it.
Author the_opposite_sex Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 to me, it seemed that he was lettin the women know that he wasn't lookin for anything more then just talk...but like you said, why would he go to like Yahoo singles, or any other single site to do that??
Pained Posted July 27, 2004 Posted July 27, 2004 Why would he just want to talk to women? Why are gay men bad to talk to? Why are straight men bad to talk to? I think his behavior is definitely suspicious. I know a lot of men who like to be chased, and like it even more when the women has to really put some effort into it. If my boyfriend were doing this, we'd have to have a serious talk.
Author the_opposite_sex Posted July 27, 2004 Author Posted July 27, 2004 i also just looked at his yahoo personals...he has a profile, but he has never contacted anyone and vice versa. So I dont know if he just signed up as a joke or what. He also only has profiles for MSN and Yahoo, maybe that's b/c he uses both of those b/c he has messengars and email at both MSN and Yahoo...b/c he don't have account for match.com, lavalife.com, or any of those.
Author the_opposite_sex Posted July 28, 2004 Author Posted July 28, 2004 thread can be closed as well...everything got worked out
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