lovehurts5 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 So its not reallyyyyy a breadcrumb because I didnt hear it from him but I was just told he was talking to my friends brother about wanting to get back with me. He contacted me 3 weeks ago after NC for 100 days but I haven't heard from him directly now in 3 weeks. Now my brains all over the place.
Berna Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Is he the dumper? If he is, wait for him to contact you. If he really wants to be with you, he will do so. Are you the dumper? If you want to be with him, contact him and talk.
Liz2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 The problem is that they work on THEIR schedule so yeah the breadcrumbs come and go and we have to pick up the pieces
curiouslyhuman Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 The problem is that they work on THEIR schedule so yeah the breadcrumbs come and go and we have to pick up the pieces This is so loaded with truth its staggering. Things will start working on your schedule once you get one that doesnt have him in it. That takes time, NC and new experiences! best of luck!
Author lovehurts5 Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 He is the dumper. I will definitely wait for him to make the move.
Author lovehurts5 Posted October 3, 2012 Author Posted October 3, 2012 Id really like to contact him but idk what I'd say.....
Svet74 Posted October 3, 2012 Posted October 3, 2012 PLEASE try not to get your hopes up and just wait. Im only telling you from expeirence. Im only telling you to not do anything or hope because the same thing happened with me. My ex told his uncle that he wanted to be with me but that he had to change first. He then made contact with me 2 months after i herd that. So i replied to him cuz i figured that he would tell me about working it out. we talked, he flirted, helped me with my car troubles. This went on for about a month or so. Then i find out that he has a gf and thinking about getting married to her! I was shocked, and so hurt. what the hell? So i went back to NC and its been 2 months, we have not talked. from the looks of it, him and that girl broke up i think. I know he will come around again, but this time im not gonna get my hopes up but try to move on.
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