Capucine Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 It's been 12 days since he dumped me. we're still friends on FB. He hasn't even changed his status. It still says in a relationship with me! Although nobody sees it except for us! I guess it's his way of may be not hurting me more than he already has..may be waiting for me to take it down.. Anyway, I get up this morning to find his female friend, has unfriended me on FB. I know it's not a big deal but it just bothers me. I wonder if it's because she wants to tag pictures of him or places with him with girls and they don't want me to see? Or she's like hey I was just friends with you because I had to and now I don't...or may be they have hooked up together? I don't know. Why am I even tracking him around? Why can't I just accept this break up and move on? It's been 12 days, I'm still in denial, shock, and confusion. I'm still waiting for him to contact me and say he's sorry. I'm on day 12th of NC..and still in denial.
Hawaii50 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 she has no reason to be your friend, simple as that. I do the same thing whens friends/family break up with people... if i have 'em on FB.
KatZee Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I had girl friends of my ex delete me on FB too, and it was sad for me because it was three years with some of them and I thought we had real friendships. The day my ex told me to "lose his number" they all deleted me on FB like I was garbage. Some of these people were ones who knew my ex cheated on me too, because I had become close to them and confided in them. Instead of asking if I was OK, I got iced out like I WAS the one who did something wrong. I also found out that one of the girls that deleted me, then turned around and friended the new girl my ex was trying to date. I was like... are you really that interested in being up in everyone's business? The girl doesn't even live in the same state, and took it upon herself to randomly friend my exes new girl. She's a f.ucking weirdo. A couple months after that, one of my exes brothers deleted me. I'm really not sure why, but that was a blow to me as well. I was nothing but nice to my ex, his friends, and his entire family, and this brother was the one who came to me and said how happy I made his brother, and that he'd never seen his brother so happy before. Again, I'm thrown out like garbage. So not only did I get treated like trash by my ex, but then by his friends, and then by his family. Yeah, it's just Facebook, but it's hard not to take it personally.
suladas Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 It's really that big of deal? I never added any family/friends of my ex, heck we didn't even put in a relationship on either of our facebooks, I didn't bother because I don't care about facebook. But then again, my ex said every single day she was sad because I didn't add her to facebook when we met. How did you notice they deleted you anyway?
I'm nuts Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I had girl friends of my ex delete me on FB too, and it was sad for me because it was three years with some of them and I thought we had real friendships. The day my ex told me to "lose his number" they all deleted me on FB like I was garbage. Some of these people were ones who knew my ex cheated on me too, because I had become close to them and confided in them. Instead of asking if I was OK, I got iced out like I WAS the one who did something wrong. I also found out that one of the girls that deleted me, then turned around and friended the new girl my ex was trying to date. I was like... are you really that interested in being up in everyone's business? The girl doesn't even live in the same state, and took it upon herself to randomly friend my exes new girl. She's a f.ucking weirdo. A couple months after that, one of my exes brothers deleted me. I'm really not sure why, but that was a blow to me as well. I was nothing but nice to my ex, his friends, and his entire family, and this brother was the one who came to me and said how happy I made his brother, and that he'd never seen his brother so happy before. Again, I'm thrown out like garbage. So not only did I get treated like trash by my ex, but then by his friends, and then by his family. Yeah, it's just Facebook, but it's hard not to take it personally. You have now just learnt how fake and fickle people are, welcome to reality, the future is bright.
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