mrt13 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I have an issue. I dumped my ex-girlfriend a month ago because she basically didn't put anything towards the relationship and I couldn't trust her. Around that time, her best friend came around and we basically became a couple behind her back. She's everything I ever wanted. I told my ex i liked her best friend because I wanted to make sure it was ok if I asked her out. She got really mad and jealous, and never wanted to talk to me again... seems like she cared only when I left her. I told her best friend this and I suggested we just stay friends to not affect their friendship, like she wanted. We thought about hiding the relationship, but i thought it'd be too much trouble and we'd get caught eventually, and that'd be bad, so I said we should just be friends. A few weeks later, and I'm missing her friend to the point of depression. She misses me just as much. I love her. so much. I don't know if i'm going to find someone so perfect for me ever again. Being with her is the only thing that'd make me happy now. But my ex and I are friends again because I decided to stay friends with her best friend, and I think she still loves me. She should want the best for her best friend and forgive her, but we're all around 16, I guess she isn't old enough to accept that.What do I do? Do I hide my relationship with my ex's best friend until my ex has moved on, even though she believes that best friends shouldn't date each others ex's at all? Or do i just stay friends with both of them? I want this relationship so badly... Thanks
tori0001 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 You should have not done that in the first place.
FitChick Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 You and the new girlfriend will have to accept not having the old girlfriend in your social circle any longer. You aren't responsible for her feelings. If you want her out of your hair, fix her up with one of your friends and call it even!
InJest Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Date the girl you like. Your ex is just mad because she didn't get her way. Her feelings are not important anymore, and I don't know why you even bothered consulting her.
Michael Johnson Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 So basically you cheated and hooked up with her "best friend." Good luck with that.
Emilia Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Perhaps it's worth remembering that the OP is only 16 years old
Michael Johnson Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 Perhaps it's worth remembering that the OP is only 16 years old It doesn't matter in this situation.
Emilia Posted October 2, 2012 Posted October 2, 2012 It doesn't matter in this situation. It always matters. The OP is still a child. Not everyone will read the original post carefully and I'm sure we all agree that this shouldn't get out of hand the way it often does.
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