O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 The girl is always on the heavy side. And she is never really anything special as far as face goes either.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 Do you have a girlfriend? Nope (ten characters)
SmileFace Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Nope (ten characters) Well.... All mighty hen... I mean alrighty then What is your question? Yes some short guys date chubby, plain girls...sobeit. Even some tall guys date chubby plain girls... yes I am serious, it happens. I am not sure how bad I will feel for someone in a relationship - you know while I myself am single...shrugs. 3
jcrew11 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Have you ever tried joining a yoga class to meet women? A lot of them are open-minded new age hippies that don't care about tall alpha men. If you have a zen personality, it would be far more attractive than a dumb jock. 3
Imported Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Well, guess you can just give up now OP. You're short, so nothing matters. Go devote your life to playing video games where you can make believe that you're not you. 1
Minka333 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Case to case basis. I have attractive friends who have gone out with short guys because they saw something special. I think some of them are cute though.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 I see that you've spent a great deal of time to say, in a roundabout way, entirely nothing of any value. Massive amounts of useless mental masturbation without any real insight to how things work. You sound like one of those retards that watched all 40 hours of Tyler's blueprint and got mind ****ed as a result. Rsd pua Tyler Durden On How Not Give A Damn Part 2 of 2 - YouTube The truth is height is a sexually selected for characteristic and has been a sexually selected for characteristic as long as there has been any sort of active selection by women. Why not call a spade a spade? This is coming from a guy who is barely 5 10. What is the reason height is preferred biologically? What benefits does it hold?
mesmerized Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Lol what all these threads on here keep teaching me is to never date a short man who is not of black or white race. Too much baggage, insecurity and self hatred. 2
Mycteria Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Have you ever tried joining a yoga class to meet women? A lot of them are open-minded new age hippies that don't care about tall alpha men. If you have a zen personality, it would be far more attractive than a dumb jock. Quoted for truth. I don't even notice a guy's height honestly. My first boyfriend was 5'7" and the guy I'm seeing right now...I honestly couldn't even begin to guess how tall he is.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 Lol what all these threads on here keep teaching me is to never date a short man who is not of black or white race. Too much baggage, insecurity and self hatred. Your IQ scares me off. What I have learned is to never date a a woman who is not of black or white race. Too much baggage, insecurity, and self hatred.
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Lol what all these threads on here keep teaching me is to never date a short man who is not of black or white race. Too much baggage, insecurity and self hatred. And why do you think these men have baggage, insecurity and self hatred? Do you think, that a short guy woke up one day and said to himself. "Oh I'm short, I hate myself now."
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 And why do you think these men have baggage, insecurity and self hatred? Do you think, that a short guy woke up one day and said to himself. "Oh I'm short, I hate myself now." I don't understand where she got race from. Did I miss something? Who mentioned race?
Mrlonelyone Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 For many women height preference is all about images, how they see themselves, and how they want others to see them. Women care more than men about the image their choice of partner projects. A BF who is taller than the woman will get more approval, and many younger women crave social approval and validation. Like men women have a sense of gender and feel the pressure to meet certain expectations about themselves. Taller girls are made to feel profoundly insecure. So they select men who will affirm what they want to feel about themselves. To feel feminine they opt for a big tall guy so he can loom over her as a man should. I'm sure there are other reasons, but if a woman is 5'7" and ruling out a man who's 5'9" there's an issue there. Sometimes we pick who we pick due to our internal issues, and mistake their filling some other need for love.
mesmerized Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 And why do you think these men have baggage, insecurity and self hatred? Do you think, that a short guy woke up one day and said to himself. "Oh I'm short, I hate myself now." No, I can sympathize with them. But if I ever wanted to date a short guy, I'd date a confident one that doesn't dwell on his height. I don't understand where she got race from. Did I miss something? Who mentioned race? I said all these threads here not just yours. Everyday wee have some thread from an ethnic guy bitching about not being able to date outside his race.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 No, I can sympathize with them. But if I ever wanted to date a short guy, I'd date a confident one that doesn't dwell on his height. I said all these threads here not just yours. Everyday wee have some thread from an ethnic guy bitching about not being able to date outside their race. Iv never even posted about ethnicity problems. In fact, I can't pull an Afghani girl to save my life I do best with blondes followed by latinos then blacks. I do tend to have bad luck with brunnetes, asians, and middle easterners. But I do feel bad for Indians, they have it REAL bad.
Mrlonelyone Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I should add that the things in my last post were more about young/emotionally immature women. Women who have been around more than 25 to 30 years realize that ruling a man out because he's 1/2 shorter than their height plus 3" is stupid.
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 No, I can sympathize with them. But if I ever wanted to date a short guy, I'd date a confident one that doesn't dwell on his height. That's different from what you said before. It basically sounded like you didn't want to date any short guys because they will have the issues you mentioned. BTW, you'd really have no idea if the guy dwells on his height or not unless he's stupid enough to actually talk about it around you. I absolutely hate my height, and everybody on this forum knows it, but I never talk about height related things at all with anybody that is not part of my immediate family. I know that confidence is super important with women and exposing anything about myself that I'm not happy with would instantly turn any girl off.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 I know that confidence is super important with women and exposing anything about myself that I'm not happy with would instantly turn any girl off. I thought that talking about something thats bad about you actually shows confidence.
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I thought that talking about something thats bad about you actually shows confidence. Absolutely not, it's a sign of weakness. Reread what she wrote again.
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 Have you ever considered purchasing a good pair of lifts? I have insoles in my shoes that make me about 1.5-2 inches taller then when I'm barefoot. I always wear them. So I'm about 5'8 with shoes on. That's still two inches shorter than average.
somedude81 Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I just checked and the insoles only add an inch. I think I tried a larger size in the past and I couldn't keep my shoes on.
Author O'farrell Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 I have insoles in my shoes that make me about 1.5-2 inches taller then when I'm barefoot. I always wear them. So I'm about 5'8 with shoes on. That's still two inches shorter than average. Its an inch. Absolutely not, it's a sign of weakness. Reread what she wrote again. Well, if someone thinks that hiding and not acknowledging for faults makes you look stronger they aren't all too bright. While they laugh at your height secretly, you can laugh and pity their intellect. Talking about your faults shows that you are comfortable with yourself.
Eclypse Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 I have insoles in my shoes that make me about 1.5-2 inches taller then when I'm barefoot. I always wear them. So I'm about 5'8 with shoes on. That's still two inches shorter than average. What happens when you get a girl home and take your shoes off? To me it's the same as women who stuff their bras. I don't mind small boobs, but I do mind complexes where someone has to pretend to be something they're not. Do you feel more confident with the lifts?
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