Sun Devil Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 So far this semester, I have approached a dozen women, but not have been able to get a date with them. I have gotten a few numbers, but they boyfriends or they do not respond to my calls and texts. I am wondering if I am not communicating with them properly. My confidence is not an issue, but I am not sure what to say to get a girl interested in me. How do I speak to girls?
ThaWholigan Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 You are probably thinking too much about wanting/needing a girlfriend. No matter what you (or others like you) may think, on an unconscious level, you DO project that - and it comes off as desperate. Take care of that first of all. 2nd of all, you should be relaxed when talking to girls, even if it is tense, you have to find comfort in the tension. What helped me learn to talk to girls was learning things like poetry (believe it or not), learning new, descriptive and colorful words, some seduction/PUA material and non-verbal communication. Find the info that you can use regarding all of the above, and it will help you.
Author Sun Devil Posted September 30, 2012 Author Posted September 30, 2012 I am half asian and half white, but I look white. However, I know that race is not a factor since I see all races hooking up with each other on campus.
Author Sun Devil Posted September 30, 2012 Author Posted September 30, 2012 Im half Japanese, but I will not move out of this country. I do not think men have lost, they still have alot of fighting left in them. I do not see how daitng will be better in Asia.
Author Sun Devil Posted September 30, 2012 Author Posted September 30, 2012 I do not agree. If I do not give women attention, then they ignore me. Tjis is what happened in high school and community college. In those 8 years, I never gave women that much attention and got nothing.
Author Sun Devil Posted October 1, 2012 Author Posted October 1, 2012 So how do I talk to girls without seeming desperate? No girls will approach me so I need to initiate the conversation
yongyong Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 you don't have confidence issue? you think so? your insecurity with your height is drilled to your brain. you don't think they will notice that?
ThaWholigan Posted October 1, 2012 Posted October 1, 2012 You're confusing the cause with the effect. That doesn't change anything - he still needs to stop being desperate.
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