mandyo550 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Hi new here i put a post on earlier but dont know what i done i think i edited it . So here goes i was married for 18 years together for almost 30 years , he changed and i thought he was going through a midlife crisis got a new Harley and contact lenses took more pride in his apperance . I knew things wernt right he moved out and we had to sell the house . It ended up that he was seeing a so called friend of ours . I always thought we would be together , and i fell to pieces not eating, sleeping on antidepressants. Well a few years later i met a lovely guy he had been on his own for two years after the death of his wife. We got on great he made me laugh which is something i really needed ,i had complete trust in him considereing what i had been through. Well the reason i am on here is i found out he had been on a sex site coming up to bed at 1 , 2 or later at night. It didnt bother me that he was looking at these sites what bothered me was the photo he put on [not of his face] and on his profile it said he was single. I know he is still receiving texts to his i phone and sending photos of himself to women . Our sex life is almost non exsistent , when i said i knew he was looking at this site he said it was to get ideas. I know sometimes things become mondain and you need to spice things up but he is so distant. He works the odd night and an evening here and there i just wonder if i am going through the same situation again . He is so secretive and there are a lot of things i know he dosnt tell me . Just wanted advice not sure where i am heading !
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