the_opposite_sex Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 first off, i dont have many friends at all. So most of my time is spent w/ him *my b/f* when i go out. Last night when i was gettin upset by him sayin that he wanted some time alone, and wanted me to go home early, he said "these are the times that i wish you had more friends, so that you wouldn't be relying on me to go out and have fun". I took offense to it at first b/c he pointed out that i DIDNT in fact have any friends, and i felt that it was shoved in my face. I have ppl that I talk to, but i dont go out w/ them, if you call that any kind of friendship. I dont know. Was he harsh in making that comment?
Fayebelle Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 The wording was harsh- yes, but I don't think he meant to be cruel. Just the opposite- he feels overly responsible to be your companion. This stress could be why he's asking for a bit of breathing room.
Wellnowuknow Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 It was kinda harsh and blunt...I think he could've told you in a nicer way. But how long have you been together? I'm asking because I centered my whole life around one guy and then after we broke up I had no one. I had absolutely no one to go out with and no one to call and I had to start all over. It was really bad. That's why now I keep my circle of friends and keep a little of my independant side so that that does'nt happen to me again. Call some friends up and have a girls night out..
Author the_opposite_sex Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs...from what i'm gathering, he needs a break from work and his other "job", which is me! heh
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