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Is there a female equivalent of the bad guy? Too many girls keep going for the bad guy, get hurt but still stay with them.

 

Few are actually smart and if they pick the bad guys is to play them too. What is a girl who is playing games and doing the same things bad guys do called?

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Or is she just referred to as the slutty girl?

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There is no equivalent.

 

You will rarely see an educated, well-to-do man with an utter ****-up of a long-term girlfriend. And if you do, he usually has some messed up mixed of a narcissistic personality disorder and a white knight complex.

 

You will see women who have their **** together tolerating ne'er-do-wells long-term.

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The female equivalent is a bad girl.

 

I'm so smart. For a woman.

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To far too many men, "Woman" covers it.

 

Bitter, much, are they?

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It doesn't exist. When was the last time you heard of a guy dumping a girl because she was too nice?
Well I don't know if this counts.

Long ago in my LDR (long distance relationship) with my ex bf, I would do most of the callings while he would hardly call. But once I started getting smarter, figuring out why should I waste more money on someone that doesn't even care to call (not even when an earthquake hit my country.. I could have been dead or injured)... then it was when the tables turned and he was calling often.

 

Or once he would tell me about how he never dated a college girl ever and I'm the only one; how all the other girls he dated before me were really immature, etc.

This guy would complained to me about an ex gf who would opened her legs to everyone, etc. That part I didn't needed to be told.

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Is there a female equivalent of the bad guy? Too many girls keep going for the bad guy, get hurt but still stay with them.

 

Few are actually smart and if they pick the bad guys is to play them too. What is a girl who is playing games and doing the same things bad guys do called?

 

A bytch? A psycho?

 

I dated the female equivalent many moons ago. She was very controlling and loved starting arguments.

 

Back then I was inexperienced and a pushover, and look at the women who go after the 'bad guy'.....coincidence?

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I would say a great example would have been my first MW, a lady in her mid-20's who was married, had a toddler, was having a PA with her boss and scamming me on the side. Completely deliberate and believable. Not anything like what one would normally call 'bad'. Still, incredibly unhealthy. Interestingly, she would end up with a guy she would herself describe as 'bad' (unhealthy) a generation later, and remains with him today. It all works out :)

 

What is a girl who is playing games and doing the same things bad guys do called?

 

I just call them unhealthy. No sense in assigning any more emotional value to it than that, IMO.

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It doesn't exist. When was the last time you heard of a guy dumping a girl because she was too nice?

 

Happened to me! In fact, it was the general theme of my 20s. "You're really nice and great but..." That was back when I thought my job as a girlfriend was to convince a guy to like me instead of trying to figure out if we were compatible.

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The female equivalent is a bad girl.

 

I'm so smart. For a woman.

 

No I think the term is "bad ass girl" but you know two women's brains are good as one mans :D

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Presumably I believe it would be the type of woman that knows a guy is into her & she just strings him along, dangling that sex carrot while she gets him to spend money on her & do stuff for her & also talks about all the other guys who want her.

 

But, why not just simplify it & just call them what they are.

Selfish or POS. which ever you prefer.

 

And the people who put up with the poor behavior.

 

Saps or chumps.

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Blonde dumb party girls that do a lot of drugs and have lots of one night stands.

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