delilah99 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Hey. I left my husband in January, and he has since left the country. So I'll be working on the divorce by myself. He's very much in my past. I met a guy on OKC in late May. First night was amazing; the text I got in the morning said, "You are amazing. Wish I were waking up next to you." Good grammar and everything. He's the smartest, bestest person I've ever been with. He's short and looks a bit like a troll doll, and I'm a hot pocket of a girl, but this worked. I don't care about any of his awful clothing or anything else. I like him, could love him. That's all. So for the first months it was great. Tons of specific dates and outings, where he made me feel cherished. Sex. Daily "hi beautiful" texts. This last week, nothing. Nothing. I've texted him each day..."How are you" etc. He answers in one-word responses. No follow up. I'm pissed. I'm about to break up with him. Anybody want to stand for him? I just don't think the daily cherishing should stop. Ever. It doesn't stop with me. I'm always thinking of little things to share with him. He divides my mind, in a good way. I like surprising him with little things. He has been an amazing partner. Til this week. He's helped me with all kinds of things, assured me how much he loves my ass and wants to **** me, all of it. He's told me how much he trusts me, to his surprise. He went on a million bad dates before he found me, his goddess, three inches taller and hot as a model (sorry, I'm old but I've still got it), he told me all this. Now, nothing? Yeah, sometimes he's busy. But it's way too early for him to be ignoring me and assuming I'm in the bag. So I think he's breaking up with me; doesn't care that much. We have never even slept over. In the first weeks, he whined about that. Early on, I played around and didn't consent to that, just needed a plan so I could bring my toothbrush and things. Figured it was just a matter of time. But he never asked again. So I did, twice, explicitly. He said, "okay," but never followed up. So he's not interested anymore? Do I just break up with him?
CC12 Posted September 30, 2012 Posted September 30, 2012 Early on, I played around and didn't consent to that, just needed a plan so I could bring my toothbrush and things. Figured it was just a matter of time. But he never asked again. So I did, twice, explicitly. He said, "okay," but never followed up. I don't get any of this. What does it mean? Consent to what? What did you ask him about? I think you should talk to him about what's going on before you break up with him. You've had a three or four month relationship, and that's long enough to be like, "wtf" when he goes cold on you for an entire week. Just bring it up and see what he says.
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