Okay to delete/block an ex from Facebook when we have class together?

[guydownsouth]

Dumped 3 weeks ago, and I've been checking my ex's Facebook page sometimes, which isn't helping me get over her.

 

Plus, I broke NC yesterday with a friendly text and she didn't even respond.

 

Is it okay to delete and/or block her and her friends off Facebook even though me and my ex have a class together for the rest of the semester? If so, should I send her a short message letting her know? I don't want to offend her or for her to think I'm immature. Will my chances of reconciliation in the future decrease if I remove her?

Edited September 29, 2012 by guydownsouth

[TaraMaiden]

Your question reminds me of the funny-quote;

 

"And the Meek shalt inherit the earth - if that's ok with everyone else, that is... I mean, if they don't mind... "

 

Do whatever it is you need to do to get over her - and class-wise, sit as far away from her as possible, and any discussion you have in class, make it relevant only to the class, and walk in and out without a hi or bye. And yes - of course - delete, block, deny, ignore, the lot.

 

Without the forewarning.

 

Don't tell her - she'll find out soon enough. You owe her nothing, but to move on. Which is of course, what you owe yourself first and foremost.

[Balzac]

She dumped you. What she thinks about you or logical consequences of her action irrelevant. It's over, NEXT!!

[suladas]

If you wanted you could message her something like it's too tough to see your facebook or something like that. It just depends if you care or not, you should just do whatever is best for you though.

 

I'm in the same boat, I just can't find it in myself to delete her though.....

[NoMoreJerks]

Your question reminds me of the funny-quote;

 

"And the Meek shalt inherit the earth - if that's ok with everyone else, that is... I mean, if they don't mind... "

 

Do whatever it is you need to do to get over her - and class-wise, sit as far away from her as possible, and any discussion you have in class, make it relevant only to the class, and walk in and out without a hi or bye. And yes - of course - delete, block, deny, ignore, the lot.

 

Without the forewarning.

 

Don't tell her - she'll find out soon enough. You owe her nothing, but to move on. Which is of course, what you owe yourself first and foremost.

This.........

[thembones]

I am in the same boat basically. I removed her form my "close friends" because that was just too much exposure. Still, whenever I logged on she always seemed to have something on my news feed. Just today, I made it so I never see her activity on my feed or anything. I just can't remove her, it is too hard. In theory it would help move on, but it is hard to let go of that.

[NoMoreJerks]

If she wants to, she can always add you back. But she dumped you, so what's the point? Dump her from facebook, and your life.

 

My ex never even added me on facebook. I'm glad he didn't, but if he had, I would've deleted him when he dumped me. I deleted him from skype, but only after I found out that he deleted me off skype. I probably would've done it anyway, maybe a week after the break-up. I was still too traumatized to take that initiative.

Edited September 30, 2012 by NoMoreJerks