Svetybug Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 My bf and I have been together for 2 and a half years. He has always treated me with respect, says he loves me all the time, spends time with me, etc. Basically, he is a good guy. My problem is my gut. He and his ex-wife got married when they were very young because she got pregnant. They were married for 15 years, but it ended because she had gotten herself a boyfriend and my bf left. My instincts constantly gnaw at me telling me that if he had the chance he would go back to her. Any thoughts?
Adunaphel Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Is there any evidence supporting your gut instincts? Are they still in touch? does he talk to her often? has he met her behind your back? he keeps comparing you to his ex a lot?
Author Svetybug Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 No, I believe that she is through with him. Early in our relationship, he would talk about her alot, until I guess he realized that I didn't really want to hear it. It just seems like even though he said he was unhappy at the end, he liked his marriage. I don't know to explain it, maybe that even though he was unhappy, it was familiar and comfortable.
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