Sex for my Husband

[GeorgiaMichelle]

I'm pregnant and cannot have sex with my husband due to pregnancy related complications. I feel bad for him because he's a very sexual person, but he's been so great about the whole thing. A couple of months ago I told him I was okay if he had sex with someone else while I'm pregnant and unable to do this for him, but he said no immediately. After a couple of months of not having sex though, he's been more open to the idea.

 

My question is where and how should I go about finding a woman to have sex with my husband?

[EmeraldStar]

Don't do it. For many reasons including the safety of your relationship and your health, don't do it.

 

Explore other ways of intimacy with your H: oral, hand(s), toys...

Go to the toy store with him, pic something you can use with him, on him.

If you get him worked up enough, he won't care too much about the method.

[Balzac]

I think what you're saying is the medical restriction is limited to vaginal penetration? Does that also eliminate anal? Gosh there are so many variations and options, why offer up another woman?

[smokey bear]

DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!

 

Anal penetration, or oral or hands, all suitable options and should give the same affect.

[Balzac]

Safe to presume you are female and opposed to alternative means?

 

I guess the way I evaluate this situation is that it takes two for the pregnancy. Any man complicit in the creation would have devoted some thought to the statistical possibility of a lockout and discussed her receptivity to alternate styles. That's just my mindset.

[CarrieT]

You two must be guys to suggest such things. The vast majority of all women would never agree to anal, even in a situation such as this.

 

And yet some of us women love it. Don't make suppositions about "the vast majority" without inquiring... You very well could be wrong!

[ICUBruh]

Noooooo way don't give him another woman..... Dont even suggest it! He should be a happy man to have you not to mention you have his child.

Even if he's a bit stressed from not having sex please him differently I'm sure he's capable of holding off not to mention the sex after you've had your baby will be amazing

[riverratt]

I am a guy and I say no to another woman.. I am very sexual myself and I know I could wait for my spouse. I would get over it and did. So should he or handle it other ways besides another woman.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

That's quite the man you got there for yourself. Got you all knocked up and barefoot waiting for him at home while he is going to go out and bang other ladies.