Beatrixx Posted September 29, 2012 Posted September 29, 2012 It was a text. It said 'Hi [my name] how's your weekend going?' Pfft... I sent him a goodbye email 20 days ago (he didn't respond) in which I said I'd appreciate it if he didn't contact me from now on so what's he playing at sending me that? I haven't replied and I'm not going to. Does he seriously expect me to reply and be all friendly?! Before I went NC 20 days ago, I often texted him saying I was missing him. I made it very clear I would like to get back together (I broke up with him but started to have regrets) but he was cold with me and didn't want me back so I felt it was for my own good that I went NC. I don't plan on ever breaking it unless he says he wants to get back together.
I'm nuts Posted September 29, 2012 Posted September 29, 2012 Strange as it may seem people do miss you, I had a similar conversation with a girl I knew, we had our farewell chat, cried for each other at the end of the conversation she stopped responding, I sent her messages to say goodbye and we was still in love with each other blah be blah, no answer from her..... 6 weeks later I get two messages, the moral of the story.......people do miss you, ignore them, they will miss you* *if it was true love.
Hawaii50 Posted September 29, 2012 Posted September 29, 2012 Does anyone else think that keeping such a close tab on NC is detrimental... I mean it's seems a lot of people are like tallying they're house walls with their totals. IE: will you wake up tomorrow and realize it's been 21 days?! 3 weeks? 1
LostOne1 Posted September 29, 2012 Posted September 29, 2012 Does anyone else think that keeping such a close tab on NC is detrimental... I mean it's seems a lot of people are like tallying they're house walls with their totals. IE: will you wake up tomorrow and realize it's been 21 days?! 3 weeks? Well i set goals.. so 30 day mark, 60 day marl etc.. It just shows how long you have made it and how you felt you could barley make 1 day let a lone 1 month or 2 months..
Author Beatrixx Posted September 30, 2012 Author Posted September 30, 2012 (edited) He just texted again. It's upset me because he's acting as if I have a right to text him back. He said: "I'm actually trying to be me here. Just me. Not anything mean or horrible. Not that I ever was. Anyway I hope you're good and life is treating you well. " Then he ended the text saying how he's starting to write some songs with a friend... What's all this about? why is he bothering? I'm definitely not replying. It would just set me back. I've been so happy doing my own thing these last few weeks. I've finally got control over my own happiness. Edited September 30, 2012 by Beatrixx
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