Girl out of long relationship...how to proceed?

[wjg23g]

Hey LS

 

A friend of mine from school got out of a few year relationship a month ago. Her ex started seeing someone 2 weeks after that, and she was upset about that. We were okay friends in school, but we've hung out a couple times since the break up, once just ourselves and another time w/ a mutual friend of ours. She's comfortable with me, we have very good chemistry.

 

I'd love to get involved with her, but I'm moving away in 3 months and I'm not sure she needs that right now in her life. Thoughts? should I just continue to ask her to hang out & see where it goes?

[InJest]

It couldn't be set up any more perfectly for you to have a fling. She doesn't need anything serious right now, and neither do you. Bang her until you move, and DON'T catch feelings.

 

If she's apprehensive about it, then just tell her you'll be around for a little while if she changes her mind, and send her on her way.

[truth_seeker]

Bang her until you move, and DON'T catch feelings.

 

I have to agree.

[wjg23g]

It couldn't be set up any more perfectly for you to have a fling. She doesn't need anything serious right now, and neither do you. Bang her until you move, and DON'T catch feelings.

 

If she's apprehensive about it, then just tell her you'll be around for a little while if she changes her mind, and send her on her way.

 

Ok- so just come on to her next time we're hanging out or propose this idea? I'm figuring the former

[wjg23g]

Update- last weekend i was out of town but i called her up and we talked for an hr. I told her I was going to go to this fall fest thing & that I wanted her to join me, and she agreed. This thing is tomorrow.

 

I was planning on just having fun as we normally do, but figured I need to be more flirtatious w/ her. Up to now things have been pretty friendly. I've been doing well w/ women lately, basically just doing whatever I want/feel like doing. This one seems just a touch tricky to me though. Thoughts?