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Is the dating world that bad for short men?


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I'm not a very tall girl (5'2") and for some reason, even though I love tall men, I always seem to find myself attracted to the short ones.

 

I had a year long relationship with a guy who was about 5'3"/5'4". He was taller than me but just by a little bit. If I was in heels, he was shorter.

And there have been several other people I have been involved with that weren't taller than that. And to be honest I didn't even notice. They seemed much taller to me, because they weren't worried about it.

 

So your dating life will be **** as long as you continue to worry and analyzing every little thing.

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In addition to confidence, I am reading pua material and plan on hiring a dating coach.

 

It's your choice read the PUA material it has value but don't get caught up in the jargon etc. Forget the dating coach though.

 

Can I ask what hobbies do you have? Other than women what's your biggest passion in life?

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why dont you want to see the data?

 

Because I really don't need statistics to try to dictate my life.

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But statistics are reality, and I want to really know the truth. Besides, you should not worry. You already mentioned that a few girls have been attracted to you. You even have a girlfriend, which is better than most men on this forum.

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But statistics are reality, and I want to really know the truth. Besides, you should not worry. You already mentioned that a few girls have been attracted to you. You even have a girlfriend, which is better than most men on this forum.

 

There are no statistics.

 

You could go and make a bunch of threads and polls online, but I wouldn't recommend that. I tried something like that and the results for my height were disheartening. And I'm significantly taller than you.

 

You just gotta keep trying and accept it. Don't know what else to say really.

 

Definitely work out and add some muscle if you can. That will help a bit. What is your build like?

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I have a decent amount of muscle. I can lift more than my weight. I am removing excess body fat so that I have a toned body.

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I have a decent amount of muscle. I can lift more than my weight. I am removing excess body fat so that I have a toned body.

 

You're a HAPA, so you're face is probably pretty good looking.

 

If you can add muscle to your frame, then add as much as possible.

 

I hope you can do that and have broad shoulders. If you are 5 foot with narrow shoulders and are slight, then few women are going to ever be attracted to you physically. On the bright side, some of us are taller than you and can't physically attract women all the same.

 

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what is a HAPA? My face has been called cute

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what is a HAPA? My face has been called cute

 

A HAPA is a person of mixed Asian or Pacific Islander heritage.

 

On the note of short men, I often find ads glorifying tall men just annoying... especially when it's pretty much the same one before every youtube video you try to watch.

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You're a HAPA, so you're face is probably pretty good looking.

 

If you can add muscle to your frame, then add as much as possible.

 

I hope you can do that and have broad shoulders. If you are 5 foot with narrow shoulders and are slight, then few women are going to ever be attracted to you physically. On the bright side, some of us are taller than you and can't physically attract women all the same.

 

 

The girl has a boyfriend...who is taller than 5 foot.

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Does the man have a girlfriend?

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