JuneJulySeptember Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 How do I know that my future wife isn't in Laos? I should move there right now and find out! No joke, but Laotian girls are HOT and they are poor as sh@t over there. Some American dude like you could sweep them off their feet. Language will be a problem though.
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Go to a class. You might meet a cute girl there with whom you can practise to be a cunning linguist. I took a few Japanese classes and met a cute girl. She wouldn't let me be a cunnilingus You get what I mean. Don't rule out things like that - you keep looking for obstacles rather than solutions. Dude, moving to the other side of the US because I might meet somebody is retarded. You should move to India because maybe you'd find somebody. No joke, but Laotian girls are HOT and they are poor as sh@t over there. Some American dude like you could sweep them off their feet. Language will be a problem though. It's ok, I can speak La Ocean.
Author Sun Devil Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I could see moving from a small town to a big city, but moving to another country is just crazy.
ThaWholigan Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Dude, moving to the other side of the US because I might meet somebody is retarded. You should move to India because maybe you'd find somebody. And it's any worse than what you already do? Whether you think it's extreme or not, the amount of complaining you do I'm surprised you wouldn't consider it. What's your plan then?
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 And it's any worse than what you already do? Whether you think it's extreme or not, the amount of complaining you do I'm surprised you wouldn't consider it. What's your plan then? Do you really think, "move to a random place" is good dating advice?
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I took a few Japanese classes and met a cute girl. She wouldn't let me be a cunnilingus It's ok, I can speak La Ocean. Haha! You're a funny guy. Honestly dude, you deserve a gal.
ThaWholigan Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Do you really think, "move to a random place" is good dating advice? It could be. You seem to be simultaneously forgetting or ignoring every other piece of advice I give you periodically, I thought it would be a decent curve ball . Note that I also said move "in the future", I didn't say "pack up and leave Cali now, and live somewhere you don't know". What right now are you willing to do to get a GF? And don't focus on what I said about moving to deflect, try to answer the question .
FitChick Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 California is circling the toilet bowl and it will only get worse. Get out while you can! 1
Author Sun Devil Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I left California and moved to Arizona. Much cheaper, more freedom, and people seem to be nicer.
TheZebra Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Do you really think, "move to a random place" is good dating advice? Are you implying that me wanting to move to a different city to find men who are more like me is a bad idea? Granted, it's only ONE of my sea of reasons for wanting to leave where I am, but you know what I mean. Darn non-refundable plane ticket... But seriously, sometimes you do need to move. Like, if I was living where my relatives are in middle of nowhere South Carolina I would be packing tomorrow.
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Haha! You're a funny guy. Honestly dude, you deserve a gal. I only modified what sillyanswer said. Cunning linguist was the original joke. Though I do agree that I deserve a girl It could be. You seem to be simultaneously forgetting or ignoring every other piece of advice I give you periodically, I thought it would be a decent curve ball . Note that I also said move "in the future", I didn't say "pack up and leave Cali now, and live somewhere you don't know". What right now are you willing to do to get a GF? And don't focus on what I said about moving to deflect, try to answer the question . My girl hunting days are on hold till school starts next month. Then I'll try to be more aggressive. I've got a few ideas. I need to seriously ramp up my flirting. Are you implying that me wanting to move to a different city to find men who are more like me is a bad idea? Granted, it's only ONE of my sea of reasons for wanting to leave where I am, but you know what I mean. Darn non-refundable plane ticket... But seriously, sometimes you do need to move. Like, if I was living where my relatives are in middle of nowhere South Carolina I would be packing tomorrow. Moving out of the area is a huge step and usually requires a reason to do so. I don't have any reason to move to New York or where ever. Mainly I wouldn't have any way to support myself and I rather not live in the subway tunnels. I'm fine where I am till I graduate then I'll move to wherever I can get a job. I'm not going to move to X city because I might have a higher chance of finding a girl. It's hardly like I'm in a place where there are no girls around as it is.
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 If by "nicer" you mean gun-toting' date=' extremely-religious, conservative, backwards, immigrant-hating Deep South wannabes then sure.[/quote'] It's also freaking hot. I can't stand it when it hits 90 over here. I'd melt in Aridzona.
Author Sun Devil Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I want to see if there is any scientific data involving short men and dating, such as if they are statistically unlikely to marry or if they do not experience any real difficulties.
silicone Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I want to see if there is any scientific data involving short men and dating, such as if they are statistically unlikely to marry or if they do not experience any real difficulties. Please don't.
Author Sun Devil Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 why dont you want to see the data?
gospel Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Ok I've read through this thread and have one thing to say.... Sun Devil it's not as hard as you think. I am 5 foot 1 and I don't give damn about my height. Inside I am taller than most men are. Your body is just a shell always remember that. Think about all the people you have in your life friends and family wise....now tell me do you see them as short, fat, balck,asian, etc etc No you see them as them nothing else. Of course women and people in general are going to look at your height and think "Damn he's short" Some women will look at a guy and say "Damn he has a big nose" but a lot of these women will go home and look in the mirror and think "I'm fat, I'm ugly" They have insecuritities as well and that's why they want a taller man because they are constantly giving into what society expects. If society expects them to be skinny they want to be skinny. A lot of them think it will be awkward with shorter guys because people will look. They want to wear heels when they go out. They want people to admire who they have on their arm. Women don't know what they want to be honest. They just follow a crowd that's why they like fashion so much so they can copy each other. Now I'm going to let you into a secret not all women act like that and that's a great thing. You don't want a girl in your life that acts like them they are insecure needy and in the long run will be emotional mess which leads to an unstable relationship full of jealousy and anger. You are better than that. You are unique and are not AVERAGE who the hell wants to be AVERAGE? You can get classy girls by being confident and that comes from within and excelling at something. What do you like to do hobby wise? Focus on the positives you can bring to the table and people will want to dine with you. I once had a girl tell me her dad didn't want me to date her anymore because we would have short kids. I ended up having sex with his wife....ok I didn't but that's because I was better than him at life and rose above the situation. You will constantly get people saying negative things about your height don't stress on it. Learn some witty comebacks for them take it as a joke and grow from it inside as that's the only place you need to grow. So to sum this all up stop putting your height as a stumbling block in your mind as people see that you are doing it a mile away and it scares females away it truly does. I was chatting to a girl 5 foot 7 at the bus stop once and she said to me 15 minutes later "Oh wow I just noticed you are really short" I moved on the convo and few days later she is begging me to go on a date buys me tickets to the theatre. Treats me to a meal and then it turned out she bored me to death. The moral of this is if you act confident and be the true you showing inner growth they soon don't notice the outside height. A little bit of charisma goes a long way. So really my friend stop looking sad think happy thoughts and just be you but the best you. Work with what you've got and enjoy life. I know it's tough but trust me when I say it's not the limiting factor you think it is. 2
gospel Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I got confident by excelling at things. My greatest tip is to walk into a building and look around and think you are the best at something. Better then everyone else in there. It could be anything but the more you do it the more your brain learns to accept it. I also got confident by not worrying about what people thought about me. That's the hardest thing in the world if you have a negative mind step but small steps forward and you will get there. 2
Author Sun Devil Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 I am working on my confidence. I hope that it pays off soon. By the way, did you have trouble getting girls in college? I hear that they are more shallow at that age
gospel Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 Good to hear that. No I didn't I was actually in a relationship for two years first part of college. During that time I also had a mini affair with a class mate but only a few kisses etc. The thing is I've never thought I couldn't get a women so never thought height was a problem.
Author Sun Devil Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 How did you initiate conversations with women?
gospel Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 You just talk to them. You do know women aren't the mythical creatures they want you to think they are? Firstly you are a man and in the hierarchy of life you are above a female and somewhere along the way women got power by using their beauty. You just need to realise you are better and are the catch they should be lucky you speak to them not the other way around. Stop thinking of women as something great and wonderful. Sure you will find one that is but until then treat them as if they aren't look at their flaws and tell yourself they are worse than yours. This doesn't mean treat them mean and be nasty just don't think they are goddesses without actually proving they are. You hold the key to your romantic life no one else so don't unlock the door for just anyone have some standards.
Author Sun Devil Posted January 10, 2013 Author Posted January 10, 2013 In addition to confidence, I am reading pua material and plan on hiring a dating coach.
KungFuJoe Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 In addition to confidence, I am reading pua material and plan on hiring a dating coach. Lol. Good luck with that. Don't forget to wear heels so you'll look taller.
ScreamingTrees Posted January 10, 2013 Posted January 10, 2013 The only thing that short guys are good for is fellating taller alpha males. If it wasn't your god-given right as Beta-Omegas to fellate us Adonises, your heads wouldn't be level with our crotches. GET ON YOUR KNEES, OP. MY BODY IS READY. SERVICE ME. DO IT NAOW. /endthread
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