l2hvn Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 my ex and i broke up about six weeks ago. it has been one month since the last time we spoke/saw each other. at that time, he wanted/needed space and said he'd call me. the thing is, i've changed my cell phone (and my number) right after the "talk." he doesn't know my new # yet because i never called him since then. i've gotten really busy travelling for my job and finding time to enjoy myself w/ friends. i am actually doing fine and better than expected. i do miss him from time to time though which i guess is normal. i no longer cry or stress out about it. i've moved on and dated other guys. i guess my question is, do you guys think it's appropriate to call him just to say hi and see how things are???
Fayebelle Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Do you have similar friends or a work # where he could find your new # if he wants it? If so then no- I wouldn't call. He asked for space so you have to respect that and let him take his time. That doesn't mean wait around for his call. You seem to be in a pretty good mentality now so I'd say just keep doing what you're doing and let him be.
Author l2hvn Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 no we don't have similar friends. i gave him my business card a while back. im not sure if he kept it or not. he never called me at work when we were together. i just wonder what he's doing right now. wondering if he misses me too. a month of no contact is pretty hard. there are days when im just tempted to call him up. but i always managed to distract myself somehow.
Fayebelle Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Stay strong- I promise- if he wants to find you he will.
simplybrill Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 yup, hang in there girlie!!! I know sometimes its really hard NOT to call, especially when you miss the good times. But you have to remember the bad times as well, because you're probably better off without the schmuck, yes?
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