pizzaman112 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 (edited) a few days ago my girlfriend of a year broke up with me. She called me crying(I go to a military college out of state and she is in NROTC at another college)basically saying she is breaking up with me. I tried to talk her out of it, but she said we had to do it. Life was too hard for her right now(school, she has an important role in her ROTC which takes up too much of her time) and how this fighting we have been doing recently and saying we were going to fix things and never do was just too much for her(she said how this place changes me into a harsher person). She went on to saying how I am the greatest guy she has ever met, how she doesn't want to do this, and a lot of other things. Then the part that confuses me came up, she said to ask her back out when I come down for fall furlough(thanksgiving break). after that I told her about something she told me a while ago, she said how when she breaks up with a guy she never feels the same about them, and she said how I am different and how that its different for me. i haven't spoken to her sense then(this was last Friday). i just don't know what to do, I have never cared about someone as much as I care about her and she was the first girl I truly fell completely in love with. Its just killing me not talking to her(ive been told i shouldn't for now) and i miss her so much and my mind is running crazy with "what ifs". I am just scared that when I come down in two months, she won't feel the same for me or won't give me that chance i so desperately want. Then last night her friend called me(she introduced us). She asked how I was doing and everything and told me how my ex asked her to ask me how I was doing and if I was okay, we talked for a while and she said how she was told by her that we broke up, nothing about the asking her back out in November. Which i told her about and said that it was odd that she left that out, but said how she has been distant lately(since ROTC started and everyone has noticed), how they haven't talked much, and how she tends to leave out details and only say little. This conversation scared me and just left me more confused. Which is why i am here today. I'm sorry that I'm leaving out a lot of details, not sure what else I need to add. Edited September 27, 2012 by pizzaman112
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