christine393 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I met an amazing guy and we've been officially together for a few months now. Lately, I've noticed the same "friend" of his tagging him in photos where she's very closely pressed to his chest. -__- I trust him not to do anything but I don't trust her. Last month, it was photos of her and him. This week, it's them at a bar and at starbucks. She also talks about me to him a lot (never met her..) but she will say be nice to your girlfriend! Treat her well! Etc. I do have some trust issues (okay.. A lot). But am I allowed to be jealous in this situation? I just feel so upset.. Sick to my stomach about it.
darkmoon Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 if you don't trust her, well, ffs, if he's any good as a boyf, he'll do something to take your feelings into account and to put you first 1
Untouchable_Fire Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 I do have some trust issues (okay.. A lot). But am I allowed to be jealous in this situation? I just feel so upset.. Sick to my stomach about it. Umm... this is a tough one since you have only been together for a short time. Did they date at any point? I'm just not sure you are at a relationship stage where you can complain to him. I'd say if he is the kind of guy who is really flirty and outgoing... you must either learn to deal... or move on.
kassy Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 Easy, ask to meet her, say that she is clearly a good friend and you'd like to go grab a beer with him, her and whoever else. If you meet her you may realize they are the most platonic of friends. 2
TG1 Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 Easy, ask to meet her, say that she is clearly a good friend and you'd like to go grab a beer with him, her and whoever else. If you meet her you may realize they are the most platonic of friends. I definitely agree, this is what you should do
Author christine393 Posted September 28, 2012 Author Posted September 28, 2012 Unfortunately we're long distance so it's difficult to see each other not to mention meet woman who take inappropriate photos with men they aren't dating.
veggirl Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 Unfortunately we're long distance so it's difficult to see each other not to mention meet woman who take inappropriate photos with men they aren't dating. well to be fair, your boyfriend is posing for these pics.
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