mtber75 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Have you guys (men and women) had any sexual incompatibility issues? Is this a deal breaker? I got together with this woman recently, although I knew her for many years. But I really am not sexually aroused by her! She tries her best to "stimulate" me. But I just can't go all the way with her? She is a very sweet girl and I really don't want to break her heart especially since I knew her for so long. What should I do??? BTW: She lives in another country.
yoman38 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 ok but you realize you should only be with people you are into, and never be in a relationship out of guilt or pity. So make sure that this is just sexual incompatibility and not you feeling an obligation to be with her. Which will just hurt her more in the future if you break up with her.
weallfalldown Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 yea, has to be chemistry there, a strong attraction......otherwise it's just meat on meat haha.....ok for an occasional one nighter.
Author mtber75 Posted September 28, 2012 Author Posted September 28, 2012 ok but you realize you should only be with people you are into, and never be in a relationship out of guilt or pity. So make sure that this is just sexual incompatibility and not you feeling an obligation to be with her. Which will just hurt her more in the future if you break up with her. Yeah, my situation is more complicated by the fact that she is a family friend and I will still probably see her under different situations. I think the line "let's just be friends" applies here! True that chemistry has to be there. But its not always sexual. I don't see any sexual or non sexual chemistry with her. Thanks
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