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All right, seriously I'm starting to believe my last relationship was an addiction... on the wagon, off the wagon, on the wagon, off the wagon...

 

Today after another week full of insults and hatred and tumultuousness and damage... I am going no contact...

 

every time we re-contact I get wounded deeper and deeper...

 

so... here I am again... no contact, new phone number (that I didn't give him the last time we were no contact), deleted one email, and set a filter to send his emails straight to trash on the email i can't delete.... so here we are...

 

No contact... day one...

 

On the agenda for the week a trip to Hawaii, I should be stoked I'm not, and a trip to visit friends... I'll be out of town and hopefully busy for ten days... hoping he moves while I'm gone....

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You need to just move on. Don't stay in a relationship thats more of an addiction than anything

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Just realized my email filters his emails to trash but doesnt delete them.... Back to obsessively checking email :( anyone have any idea of how to force gmail to empty your trash automatically??

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Just realized my email filters his emails to trash but doesnt delete them.... Back to obsessively checking email :( anyone have any idea of how to force gmail to empty your trash automatically??

 

 

not exactly sure if you can do that, but you seem to have found out that the problem isnt with google, its with you "obsessively checking email". The hardest thing one can control is their feelings, yet the easiest person to control is ourselves. Maybe you could look deep down inside of yourself and wonder "why do i need to obsess over someone else..."

 

food for thought i guess. good luck and hang in there!

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