should I bring this up?

[supaflyz]

Sorry this is kind of long read.

I've known this girl for about 8 months. We had class together but never talk. I message her over the summer on facebook for her number. I decided to text her as she got back from her vacation. This girl has just got out of a 5 year relationship in may or so. Well we been talking for like 2 months now. I asked her to be my gf when we were at the movies. She told me that don't I think it was to early. However, I don't want to get drag along or get played. A friend of her which also knows me been giving me some info on her. Apparently this girl told her friend that she likes me and think that I'm nice and sweet. That isn't very positive to me since I've been told that before and end up not getting the girl.

 

She told me that she always been with *******s. I could confirm this because she also told her friend that. She said to her friend that I'm not the type that she usually date, but she needs to change because it hasn't been working. Now after hearing that from her friend, I'm thinking why would you be with a a--hole in the first place. I know girls love guys that are a--holes.

 

To cut the story short, this girl has been coming over my house chilling and we been out all the time. We kiss, cuddle, had sex (well kind of, read below). She told her friend that she likes me.

 

I was concern with where the the relationship is going. I decided to tell her friend to msg her to ask about this. She basically talk to her friend over the phone and was crying. She said that she feels rejected because I didn't have sex with her when I got her naked. I told her that its not you, and its me, but your still sexy. She told her friend that she was about to invite me to her grandparents, but I made her feel bad.

 

Now I also found out that she had sex with some guy after she broke up with her bf. That was a few months before I started talking with her. She told her friend that the guy was a rebound. She also told me when I ask her that she had one rebound guy after I told her I don't want to be a rebound.

 

Anyways, I saw that she left some commcents and like a few of his pics on facebook. I might be overthinking about this. I tend to get paranoid. Why would you still talk to a rebound guy? Her friend told me that she knew that rebound guy for awhile. I just don't want to be string a long for the ride. I'm not that kind of person to mention this, but I did invested a lot of time on this. I also bought her a few gifts. The gifts are nothing, but I just don't want to pour my emotions out and ending up getting hurt at the end. I ask her before if she is seeing anyone which she told me no. Should I ask her anything about the guy? I'm suspicious, but I know every relationship starts with trust.

[GoneToCode]

no. don't bother at all to bring it up.