jameskirby Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Hi, i have been living with my partner now for 2 years, and am very much in love with her. The problem is that i went on a stag night with a friend a few weekends ago and got drunk and ended up having a end of night slow dance with her (nothing else happened). i now feel completely gutted about my behaviour and just hate myself for doing such a low thing, what should i do?, i feel i cant tell my girlfriend incase she cant forgive me. i am seriously considering never drinking again after this, i cannot and will not allow this to happen again. anybody got any adivse for me??.....please?????!!. James.
Debster Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 So all you did was slow dance with her? There was no kissing/grinding/making out, etc.? If not, then i say forgive yourself.
Author jameskirby Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 Hi Debster, thanks for your reply, no there was none of that, just dont know if i can trust myself after it thats all, think the best course of action is to not get drunk and preferably take my gf out instead of going out with the guys eh?!. thanks anyway you have made me feel a bit better about the whole thing, maybe im making too much of it!. James.
EC Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Oh James ... When i first started reading the post I thought ..great another scumbag that cheated on his girl and wants advice and I was ready to bash you. But I was wrong. You didn't do anything wrong and you should not beat yourself up about it. It was a harmless slowdance. I think if your honest with your girlfriend she will defintely understand. But you do have to be honest with her. Also you can still have guys night out and have a good time...just know your limits when you drink and remember you have a beautiful girl waiting for you at home.
Author jameskirby Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 Thanks EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd, im glad you dont think its too bad, just got the horrible task of telling her i guess...... hmm think i might see if i can forgive myself first before i tell. thanks again. James.
Fayebelle Posted July 26, 2004 Posted July 26, 2004 Have you ever had any other probs when drinking? The reason I ask is b/c it seems a big leap from 1 prob 1 nt to never drinking again.
Author jameskirby Posted July 26, 2004 Author Posted July 26, 2004 nope, well i dont think i do have a problem with drink, i do have about 4 beers on a normal week, but not all at the same time, so i dont think i do have a problem with that. the reason i say i dont want to go drinking again is because i would rather give that up than make another stupid mistake and hurt the one thing i love, do you know what i mean?. James.
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