rjl3wy Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Alright I'll start off this thread by saying 2 months ago I was posting in the breakup section and pretty much depressed. Wasted my whole summer away because of my misery over breakup with my ex. So I'm happy to be posting in this forum for once. Moving on! Haha Anyways the story starts about 2 weeks ago. Went out Saturday night with a few friends and one of themselves girlfriend. She invites a friend who happened to have a boyfriend. Long story short she was flirtin with me throughout the night. End of the night we all stop at pizza pizza and at one point she grabs my phone and adds herself to fb and puts her number in. For the next week after she texts me every single day all day. And there definitely flirty. Someday I wake up at 10am to numerous texts from her that started at 5am cuz she has school. So the Sunday that just passed, the same group of ppl all went out bowling. I picked her up cuz I live close. At bowling she flirts with me all night to the point that another girl asked me what was going on lol. So I drop her of that night, get home and I look at my phone and she texted me saying "come see my dogs" lol. So I go back and we chilled all night. Nothing happened but we spent the all night together and she was being flirty. So we get to last night. I mention we should hang out, she asks what would we do, I suggest a bunch of things and she picks Movie at my place. I hit the gym quick, pick her up, she hangs out in my room while I shower and then we hangout watching the movie. She's flirting wit me all nights, playfully Hutton me and pinchin me and stuff, we end up play wrestling if thy makes any sense but there was definitely some sexual tension. She wants a hug when she leaves and that's that. So my question is what the hell is going on lol. She's crazy flirty but she knows her limits and if we ever get there she always says I have a bf. from what she's told me he is her first sexually. So stage 5 clinger. So I'm not sure if I'm wasting my time and she just likes the attention... Or she's scoping me out cuz shes happy and won't cheat or something else. Would appreciate some male and female input on this one. I told myself I wouldn't be the other guy after my ex pretty much moved on with a friend a week after but I'm thinking I got my own needs so
kingdork Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 How old are you two, particularly her? If she's an adult and acting this way, forget about her asap. If she's younger, then there's some leeway since she's still developing emotionally and may not really understand her own thoughts and actions. Look at it this way: even if she were to leave her bf for you, you've already witnessed her behavior towards you while already having a boyfriend. Now, if you were him, what would you think about this behavior? How would it make you feel?
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