smint Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 (edited) Long story short(I posted here so many times) -I am 26,ex is 28,we were together for 7 yrs,my first everything -he left me for someone else but never confessed me -he left me by the phone,blamed me for God knows what,I came 2 times to his door to beg him,1st time he slammed door into my face,2nd he told me if I come once again,he is not going to let me in Anyway,he left me in March,in June he already started living with his new girlfriend and her 5yrs old child,her husband died in accident,and she hasn't even waited 6 months to pass,they are already living together...They have nice picture on Facebook of course... I found out that from God knows who...It's been 6 and a half months since he left me,I am on strict NC for 3 and a half months,during my NC,he sent 3 text messages asking me how I am,and in 3rd he congratulated me for finishing faculty-I ignored all of that and blocked him on Facebook... Today he called me 4 times and I haven't answered,so he sent me 3 messages: 1.Are you calling my grandmother?If you do,stop right now! 2.Stop disturbing my grandmother with phone calls! 3.It's enough!!!!!I have my life,I love other girl,leave me alone,understand!!!!!!It was enough! I was like aaaaaa??????????Is he taking drugs?Is it possible that he still thinks that I am cutting my veins for him??? I answered"I am not calling anybody,I don't know what are you talking about,leave me alone too." So I broke NC,and now I regret,is this a game?He dumped me,I left him alone,I haven't answered to him or initiated contact for 3,5 months(of 6,5 since BU).Is he crazy or am I??? Edited September 27, 2012 by smint
Mike_d Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 bummer, yes, a game, a breadcrumb. if you were not then you have nothing to respond to
Author smint Posted September 27, 2012 Author Posted September 27, 2012 I am idiot!I broke NC just not to feel like maniac,of course I am not calling his grandmother??? At least I answered politely...I regret answering so much right now!
ashtree-house Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 He's crazy, you shouldn't feel bad for breaking NC to defend yourself. That's a weird.. situation..
Appleness Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Had a similar situation. 2 months into NC, got a text that said "Is there any reason why you're ignoring all of my texts?" when there were none. They're just weird. Ignore them
Author smint Posted September 27, 2012 Author Posted September 27, 2012 Really weird situation...I answered in nice way,without these=>!!!!!!!!!!!
Author smint Posted September 27, 2012 Author Posted September 27, 2012 Had a similar situation. 2 months into NC, got a text that said "Is there any reason why you're ignoring all of my texts?" when there were none. They're just weird. Ignore them Yeah,but I haven't ignored.I can't change it right now,or maybe somebody is really calling his grandmother,and he wants to believe that I am still chasing him like I did when he left me,maybe he miss my attention.
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