bob the brave Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I'm sure we all know people who are party ninjas. They run to the bar after work act roudy, get drunk, hit on each other then wake up with hang overs. I know married people that still do this and some that are really depressed because they no longer can. Problem is they are always caught up in self-created drama. They sleep with each other and then somehow somebody gets hurt, I guess jealousy, competition...yada, yada. All their relationships are abusive, not physically, but they just use each other until somebody get ****** off. They don't talk for weeks and then the cycle repeats itself. Do you think relationships based on pure hedonism (if it feels good, do it) is a fun, unrestricted, free kind of lifestyle or one sheltering hidden issues and self-destructive?
yoman38 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 lol, I think you're looking into this alot and my question would be why? but IMO this sort of lifestyle is fine when you are young and "discovering yourself" and not in a committed relationship. But if you are serious with someone and grown up then it's still ok to go out and have fun but it's not about hedonistic pleasures more about love and kindness and companionship.
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