MonsterMash Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss.
Emilia Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Some people - I think this is true for men too - are attracted to neurotic, vulnerable types. 1
amaysngrace Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 I want a low-key chill nice guy. They're hard to find. 5
Furious Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. I suggest you start wearing black, and if you don't have problems make some up...lol..
cocorico Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. I've never been remotely interested in guys that wear a cloak of drama. Well, not since primary school, when I thought that was "deep". I go for strong, driven guys. Leaders. Life's too short to waste time on other people's neuroses. 2
TigerCub Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. hmmm, never thought of that. I would take confident and charming over whiny and negative any day!! But I do think that there are people out there that need someone to "Save" and so they are attracted to the troubled and drama magnet negative people, because if they keep giving all they have to them, they might just save them. That sort of dynamic feeds the savior types.
Got it Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. I have no idea. This is foreign to me. Why?
Minka333 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I think i already have enough drama in my own life to want another whiny drama-seeking man...
stillafool Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. If they have women falling all over them I'm sure it isn't because they are whiney and needy it is probably because they are goodlooking. I guess it is the same reason why men will put up with a womans whining and neediness if she is goodlooking. Goodlooking people have it like that. Why do you care?
monkey00 Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 I suppose you're referring to the good looking emo types? Don't know, good question. I have a friend that kind of fits the bill, and there are specific women that are attracted to him..he's short too around 5'2 but it works for him. I think certain women are just attracted to guys who are projects, that need fixing. Maybe they tap into the nurturing/maternal subconscious side to these women.
Robert Z Posted September 28, 2012 Posted September 28, 2012 Why is there such an attraction to the dark, brooding, always seems to have drama going on man......but the confident guy without issues gets no love? Seems like every whiney, needy, blogs about his problems that really arent, dresses all in black ******* out there have women falling all over them. But the guys who are self confident and don't need a mommy are kinda **** out of luck. Discuss. Perhaps your are confusing confidence with arrogance. 1
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