desertsessions Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 This sucks, I really miss her a lot and it's been around two years since we broke up. I didn't think about her for the longest time, then I saw her at some festival back in summer. I didn't think to much of it, but now I'm thinking about how much i messed up a great relationship. I feel silly for still caring tremendously about this girl so long after, and I'd never let her know that cause she'd probably think I was nuts. She's the first girl I ever truly loved. I've dated a few girls before, and none of them have left this kind of impact.
Million.to.1 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 All our first loves leave an impact. You may never "get over her" - but you can find peace with it. If you are single or haven't had a relationship since her, then of course when your feelings of loneliness will surface, you will think of her because that's the last place you felt loved. with her. It's natural. If you feel that you messed up, then try not to make the same mistakes in your future relationships. That's the best thing you can do for yourself. Learn and move forward. there will be another girl, or 2 or 3.....
Author desertsessions Posted September 27, 2012 Author Posted September 27, 2012 All our first loves leave an impact. You may never "get over her" - but you can find peace with it. If you are single or haven't had a relationship since her, then of course when your feelings of loneliness will surface, you will think of her because that's the last place you felt loved. with her. It's natural. If you feel that you messed up, then try not to make the same mistakes in your future relationships. That's the best thing you can do for yourself. Learn and move forward. there will be another girl, or 2 or 3..... Well, I almost feel like I'm at peace with it now. I know she's in a relationship and it didn't bug me as much as I thought it would when I found out. I just miss her in general. We connected pretty darn well, because we're both weird as hell haha. If anything I just miss her friendship:o I don't know how people get the courage to just call their ex 3 to 4 years down the line. I could never do that, I'd feel so incredibly awkward.
Minka333 Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Her memory might have evoked and stirred certain emotions closest to filling the void you feel deep within. When that happens to me, i put my feet up, listen to a nice music, sip my favorite drink, close my eyes, bask in the positive nostalgia and lose myself. After awhile, i would feel better and move back to reality.
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