Shes.wierd. Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Ok, so im 18. Im texting a girl who i met through a friend (its his sister). Been messaging each other for a long time now, 3+ months. At first everything was going fine, we agreed to meet up, it went really well! We carried on texting each other. Then she started to get a little wierd told me she was into bondage, being treated like a sex slave etc. At first this freaked me out a little, but now i like the idea of her being really experimental and up for a lot of stuff!!! Ok so, were at a point now where we send dirty messages to each other a lot, a few of my friends have seen them and they said its not normal. That doesnt bother me, I know shes a tad wierd and i like it, turns me on a little But know she wont agree to meet up any more, even tho shes still messaging me like this? She comes up with excuses like well ill probably be sleeping till bout 12-1ish. ok, thats no problem how bout the afternoon? No, ill probably be tired and resting! Really when u get up that late? You probably get my point, it feels like shes making up excuses not to see me! Yet she still texts me how she would like to have sex with me etc. Im confused and dont know where I stand! Ive tried asking her what she wants from this relationship, but she says she is unsure. Should i keep going at it? I do like her a lot.
Author Shes.wierd. Posted September 26, 2012 Author Posted September 26, 2012 Do you think she might be playing me on?
EmeraldStar Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I can't be positive if she's playing you on purpose. These are only my opinions. It kinda sound to me that she maybe she's nervous about you wanting to act out those things with her. Or maybe she's acting out fantasies through txts. The only real way to find out the truth is to ask her, even if you have to refrain from the sexting to get her to answer.
SpiralOut Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Stop sexting with her and see if she keeps talking to you. That will answer your question.
CarrieT Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Have you thought of actually just calling her and talking with her directly? Why just texting? There are more ways to communicate with a voice...
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