jnel921 Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Sounds like my situation over 15 years ago. Except we were together 6 years and our son was 1 and I was 4 months pregnant. We went to counseling where he said the same things. He didn't love me. He would stay out which was unlike him. One day I gave him the choice to stay out or stay home. He picked the first. As pregnant as I was, I didnt need the proof in my face. Just a healthy environment for my kids. I packed all his things and had my brother in law help me take it to his mother's. He was happy I let him go.... It was tough for me. I pray you have the help of family that I did. Without them I don't know how I would have made it through that rough time in my life. I never went back although years later he wanted to. At that point I changed and became stronger. You will too. We both remarried other people. His marriage ended due to infidelity as well and I am currently dealing with my H who just cheated as well. Except he doesn't want to leave and is remorseful. it's a tough time. Please be strong and don't let this affect your unborn baby. I remember going through so much and even went into premature labor and he was no where to be found. Stay strong.
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