lukas Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 My cheating ex left me in April when I found out about her lies and I have thrown out most of her belongings. All that remains is are a few gifts, christmas and bday gifts from last year. One of which is a silver hip flask. It's worth a fair amount and well every time I see it it just reminds me of all the pain she caused me. It seems like a waste to throw it out like I have with most of the rest. Would it be bad form to sell it on ebay?
Minka333 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Go sell it! It's just gonna give you bad vibes..then get yourself something you like
Mcnulty Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Dress it up as a vibrator and send it back to her!
fallenheart Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Broke up with my ex on my birthday. She gave me a watch, which I thought was a kind of careless, thoughtless gift cause it didn't match my sensibilities at all. It was just lazy, you know? Just another indicator that she didn't really care about me. So a few days later I sent it back to her, along with the other stuff of hers in my apartment. I'm not saying send it back to her, but I DO think you oughtta sell it and keep the money. She's gone...you don't need that reminder staring in your face anymore. Get the money. And use it for bills and stuff. Don't buy something else, cause that'll just end up reminding you of her. Just get the money and USE it and forget her.
Coffee20 Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 We broke up with my ex also in April and I returned things back to him (although now I think I should have given them someone or sell them too). I kept a few small gifts from the chocolate eggs, he bought me earlier but I threw them away. I only kept piano sheet music he bought me as a Christmas present, I didn't look at it but I honestly really like the present and I appreciate it. It really reminded me a lot of him, I am happy the things are gone, I don't need them.
Gulf-Delta Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Depends. If you hate her and are in a "hope I never see that bitch again" mindset, get rid of it. If you still love her, want her back, or miss her, just put it in a box somewhere for later. I loved my ex, and still do I guess, but I put everything she ever gave me in a box, and wrapped it in tape, and set it in the closet in my spare room. That was 5 months ago and I haven't touched it. But I know, one day, when I'm older and wiser, and the pain doesn't hurt so much, that I can go back and look at the memories and the photos and all of it and feel happy for the memories. 2
CopingGal Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 I gave away or threw out every single thing my ex gave me. I wouldn't keep anything long enough to sell it. I would throw it away or give it away quickly and move on.
CopingGal Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Depends. If you hate her and are in a "hope I never see that bitch again" mindset, get rid of it. If you still love her, want her back, or miss her, just put it in a box somewhere for later. I loved my ex, and still do I guess, but I put everything she ever gave me in a box, and wrapped it in tape, and set it in the closet in my spare room. That was 5 months ago and I haven't touched it. But I know, one day, when I'm older and wiser, and the pain doesn't hurt so much, that I can go back and look at the memories and the photos and all of it and feel happy for the memories. I don't have that luxury. Pretty much my entire relationship was a lie. I can't look back on good memories because I don't know what was true and what was a lie.
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